Thursday, January 24

Dominatrix video - The Hour CBC

Here's a great video explaining what a Dominatrix does.



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Since my last rant, I have been pondering even leaving the business ... at least temporarily to pursue other projects. However, that would suck for my regular submissive clients who do enjoy domination for what it is.

I still stand by my opinions when I say, escort agencies that hire submissives and Dominatrix will eventually ruin the business here in Montreal. I am simply not going to play the catch up game. Even when I first started going Pro, I already had a good idea of what my values and ideals were. I knew what I would and would not do, and did not tolerate 'topping from bottom.'

My first experience was at a dungeon, but after 1 week I knew that I had to be Independent. I simply did not accept so called submissives expecting me to open my legs or show more because they are used to that type of behavior. If anything I was a lot rougher and even lectured them for being disrespectful towards a Mistress. Needless to say I didn't last long among the dungeon's clientel. But it wasn't a huge loss for me since they didn't stimulate my creativity and my desire to Dominate.

So I went solo and rented dungeons instead. I screened out people and charge whatever I want. Unlike the agencies, submissive cannot speak to the Mistresses. But when you are Independent, the submissive can contact the Mistress first hand either by phone or email. I find that when you know more about the sunmissives' background - it only helps to enhance the scene. I can take advantage of his dark desires, by teasing or tormenting him about it. When we BOTH enjoy the session, I am truly happy. If he explores new fetishes and happens to love it, even better.

I am going back to the days when I regarded Domination as a part-time hobby. It is something to do on the side while I concentrate on more important things like relearning a new skill for the job force, family, and inner peace. It's simply not worth the stress and ranting on something you cannot control. I am over that now.

Ahhhh. My head is clear.

Green tea is tempting me, I will go enjoy one right now. Until next time.

Domina Jade

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