Wednesday, December 28
When we arrived at phlippe's place, two nicely wrapped present where on the 'throne.' And I knew it was for me. I took my time unwrapping, careful not to tear the wrapping paper. I delicately took out my first gift with was a beautiful wooden paddle shaped like an old fashion hair brush. Except this was much thicker.
The next gift was longer, in fact it was another wooden paddle with holes going through it. It was simply gorgeous and it fit nicely in my hand.
It was only until late in the evening that we played. I love testing out new equipment. I laughed wickedly while phlippe groaned and moaned from the pain I had inflicted on him. I also incorporated waxplay into the scene. We both enjoy waxplay a lot. And this time I used two candles at the same time.
The result from the paddles where gorgeous blisters. The skin became rough to the touch and I am sure that philippe will feel the aftermath tomorrow when he sits down. Hehehe, I love having philippe as my personal playtoy. We both feed of each others sado/maso personalities. Another reason why he's a keeper is that he makes such quality toys for me. He has proven to me how useful he is.
Now if only I can find a costume maker and photographer, then I'd be very happy.
The reason why I do not believe his story is because he would have to interact with like-minded people in the fetish community. And as far as I know, no responsible adult will allow a child of 15 years to part-take in the fetish community.
So I told him:
"Oh quite impressive to be in the lifestyle for the past 7 years ... that means you started at the prime age of 15 yrs. In that case, please explain how you became involved. I am quite curious how a 15 yr old would be accepted in the fetish community. Domina Jade "
He responded today:
"i have been in the lifestyle for that long,,
paid older Mistresses greater amounts to overlook the age factor Maam"
Oh give me a break!!! Did he think that by mentioning money everything would be so easy?? I don't think that a resposible Mistress would be so driven by money that they'd overlook his age. If this actually happened then I do not even think she's a Mistress because she, in my opinion, has created a heinous crime. This is pretty much child abuse and pedophiling. But like I said, I doubt that this is true.
So I respond:
"I highly doubt that any self-respecting Domme would be lured into training an under-aged child to play S/M games. you are either too high in your own fantasies or take me for an idiot for which I am not. And to think that money will actually lure me as well, if your story was actually true, is completely wrong. Because I do not play with whomever comes my way. No matter what your wallet size.
I find that trust is a very important element in BDSM play. And already you do not have my trust. So I bid you farewell to these e-mail chats because I have no interest in continuing them. Don't even bother e-mailing me back because I have already blocked you.
Gawd, the things that people say! It really does boggle my mind. Now I do not mind playing with younger guys/girls than myself as long as they are legal. I want to be able to trust my submissives and vice versa. I want to develop a deep relationship where I really get to know my submissives. And if I catch you in a lie, then you have completely tarnished the trust we have established. So for any submissive out there who hopes to serve me in r/t one day, do not feed me bullshit stories. you will not impress me, you will only have me shut the door in your face.
Saturday, December 24
I will call him milkshake because he's got these man boobies, and I made him dance to the tune of the Milkshake song while rubbing his "boobies" LOL that was quite a laugh. Even better was that we remained on cam for 45 minutes, so I milked him dry financially. I made $170 just off of him. Not bad for sitting pretty in front of a cam and directing the submissive to stuff a carrot up his ass. Plus I even made him go into his hamper and get a pair of stinky underwear briefs to put it over his head and cover his face. Hehehe. I am so bad. Oh and he also had to pay the "Cum Tax" because he begged and pleaded to cum but I wouldn't let him until he pay up. Since he's feeling weak and so horny, he happily obliged. Chi-ching.
I love getting submissives like these. Those who actually stay on the phone long enough to entertain ME and no one else. There's no time limit, he just keeps on adding to his balance until I am done with him.
Wouldn't you want to contribute to my lifestyle?? Here's a very small way of making my happy. It's only $25 out of your pocket, but at least you know that it is a wise investment :)
(p.s DO NOT click unless you are really ready to send tribute. Otherwise I will block your sorry ass for wasting my time, just a fair warning)
All cheap-asses who call and bail after 3 minutes are blocked. I have little time to waste on wankers anyways. But really, what's the use of calling for 3 minutes?? Must be that they're impotent and have small weiners. And I have no use for those either.
My asian cuckold called me as well. He has this fantasy of having me as a girlfriend and using him for his money while I fuck other more endowed men. He sent me a picture and his dick is about the size of his pinky. LOL poor guy indeed. I told him that I will add his photo to my Yahoo Group. So if you want to see it, you will have to join. Go to my personal website for the link.
I will be posting more NF stories and if I get more humiliating photos, those will be posted in my Yahoo Group.
Merry XXXmas and Happy New Year
Sunday, December 18
Sunday, December 11
Well today I got this long winded letter that seems vaguely familiar. However what struck me as 'fake' what this part:
"But I was excited to see your views as it immediately struck a chord with me. Its appealing you are straight forward in your concepts and that you seek devotion, service, and adoration...such views resonate with me as I understand growth through service."
Okay on my CM profile I blatantly say that I am looking for paying submissives. And nowhere did I say that I am looking for devotion, service, and adoration as he mentioned. So this is my response.
I don't think you have truely understood my profile..... what you mention is a Mistress who is looking for a committed relationship and no where in my profile does it state that I am looking for such. I am pretty clear when I say that I am looking for a PAYING submissive for the occasional session with me.
This letter sounds like it has been around for a long time. In fact I vaguely remember reading it already. Seems like you have already e-mailed me before. Do you not think that I would recognize your attempt to pretend you haven't e-mailed me before??? I suggest that you re-write or even better stop your mass e-mails to just ANY Mistress. I have no time for submissives who will settle for just anyone - makes you seem desperate. Don't take my reactions the wrong way, I am simply sending you some constructive critism.
So do not e-mail me with your generic letters. Better yet, do me a favor and BLOCK ME.
Anyways, I will continually get dumb 'submissives' who think that they can impress me with letters of devotion that sounded very very over-used. Well when it sounds too good to be true I am very skeptical indeed.
Thursday, December 8
After much thought I decided to join because I missed discussion in local BDSM groups created by Mistress Jade Dragon. So now I have a new profile under DominaJade which suited me better than AsianKinkySiren.
Here is my other blog on Alt.
My previous blog using AsianKinkySiren is here:
Tuesday, December 6
What I do not agree with are those who start preaching that being a pro-Domme is wrong that it's a sin. I was contacted by a member on Collarme, this is how it went:
preacher*: "selling sex is wrong"
DominaJade: "Oh so we have a prudist here on CM. your opinions about pro Dommes are your right, but don't go preaching your views on me. In case you didn't read my profile in whole there is no mention that I am offering sex. Domina Jade"
preacher: "indirectly you are by session, men seek excitement, you sell sex in this way"
DominaJade: "Well whatever you say goes in one ear and out the next ear. Try preaching to someone who cares about your opinion. Don't e-mail me again. Domina Jade"
(*) Not the actual name of the member.
When I am on collarme or any meeting forum, I do not seek out other members and start preaching my views on other people. I find that this type of behaviour is rude and unacceptable. Just because I am fulfill an excitement by dominating men and women (*gasp* I happen to be bisexual too) does not mean I am offering sex. As far as I am concerned the definition of sex is to be have intercourse.
Personally I don't think I should defend my choices about being a pro-Domme, but I have seen so many conflicting views when it comes to this topic/subject. I will agree to not-agree, but just don't start stuffing your opinion down my throat when I did not ask for one.
There are pictures of the dungeon at http://www.bdsmcircle.com.
It's a large play space in the basement. The walls are made of reinforced concrete, actually the place use to be a storage for fur coats. The dungeon was discreetly located and no one is the wiser.
We arrived at 10pm, and there were a few ppl who arrived before us. Usually the party starts past 11pm. The cocktail dishes that philippe brought in were very good. I couldn't help nibbling throughout the whole evening because I ate little before coming to the party.
The action started when a well known bondage fetishist started suspension play with a male submissive. The Dominant was very talented at using shibari techniques and it was quite a learning experience to watch him perform. It took a good 45 minutes to complete the rope bondage and another couple of minutes to unravel the submissive. One day I hope to be as talented, but for now I will practice my knots.
After witnessing the bondage scene, I felt the itch to play with my submissive. I opted for a metal device attached to a wall. It looks like a curved sculture with wrist and ankle restraints attached. Once I secured philippe with the restraints, I started to warm up by spanking him with my bare hands. It stung me, but I am sure it stung him even more over the bare ass. There were a couple of devices that I played with; a leather paddle, flogger, nipple clamps, cane, switch, rubber paddle and leather switch.
During play, I am so concentrate on the scene that I rarely notice everyone else. My good friend Mistress Jade Dragon, owner of ClubFetish.ca, finally arrived at the party but I did not notice. When I saw her, I left my submissive for a moment to chat with my friend. She wore a lovely tall suede hat, one that I have always wanted to have as part of my wardrobe collection. She did not come with a submissive and so I shared philippe with her. I knew he was in good hands, so I left the two to play.
As I was watching the two play, I was approached by Mistress Malycia. We shared similar views on D/s. Perhaps one day we will double domme. I would love to shared stories and techniques. She seemed like a serious Mistress who knew what she wants, the way I know what I want.
Last time I came to a play party in October, I was shy and nervous because it was my first time scening in front of many well known BDSMers. This time I socialized more and it was nice to get input from other fetishists.
Next party will be in February. Hopefully I will be able to go, it really is a public event to go to.
Take a look http://www.geocities.com/kinkysiren69/home.html
I am proud of what I have done so far and this site will always be improved as I gather more photos and videos to add a membership page. That's my goal for the upcoming year.
Well good night, I am off to bed.
Thursday, November 24
I entered the room wearing my pvc mini skirt and fishnet top that showed my black bra underneath. My usual pvc top had ripped, I need to have that fixed. Well sub Al was mesmerized by my presence. I knew he has an ass fetish and so I flaunted mine as I walked in front of him. He needed to be spanked as he hadn't been spanked in awhile. But first he was to crawl to me and lick every inch of my lovely heels. I love to see a submissive on their hands and knees ... yes in that moment he was inferior and I treated him as such.
I told him that he had been a very bad boy, and needed to be disciplined. And so he got some real good spanking from my gloved hands. He loved the feel of pvc covering his ass. He absolutely loved the look, the feel and the smell of pvc. And he craved to touch me, but being the deviant being that I am - I denied his request. Oh he had to feel my wrath because he didn't think that I'd be so sadistic, but I proved him wrong. I used my bare hands, my flogger, my spanking paddle and my heavy duty rubber paddle on him. His ass was turning a deep shade of pink once I was done with him. And although I was harsh with him, it turned him on. If only he could touch me once, he'd do ANYTHING for the priviledge.
I decided to be generous with him and allowed him to touch my pvc clad bottom - with one finger only. He pleaded with me to allow him more, but I would not budge. He had to accept whatever I allowed him. I watched him from the mirror as he traced his finger over the panty line that showed from underneath my skirt. I giggled and commented how pathetic he looked. He didn't care that he's being pathetic because it was worth every touch. However his hand 'slipped' and covered my ass. I did not like that one bit, so I smaked his palm hard with a wooden spoon 10 times. I knew that since he doesn't feel this sensation often, it was painful for him. After his punishment I teased him some more and denied him ever more till he could almost feel his loins burst.
Overall the session was a good one, I had him do other amusing tasks like try to cum with saran wrap over his penis. That was very funny to watch. Needless to say he couldn't cum in time before the session ended. I guess he will be jerking off at work lol.
I pretty much opened his mind further on BDSM as he was used to more sensual/sexual play. As I explained to him later, BDSM to be is about having a very good mind-fuck.
Tuesday, November 15
This loser from collarme.com name "mistreatme" sent me a msg which says:
You are do beautiful that it hurts to look at you. I feel like I must plan my next vacation in Montreal. You are undoubtedly a boon to Canadian tourism. I hope you can wield that whip as well as one might imagine.
I disregarded the typos and wrote to him because I enjoy the company of pain sluts.
" Oh do plan to visit Montreal, it's a beautiful city and the best thing I am there :D
Your hope for a sadistic Mistress is right on the spot. I have no problems with heavy punishments. Last time I had my personal submissive come out black and blue from the beatings. I use floggers, paddles, canes and any hard device I can put my hands on.
How long have you been a submissive?
What are your past experiences?
Do you wish to visit Montreal often?
Then he immediately responded
"could you send me a naked pic? I have been a submissive for 30 years, ever since I lost the one love of my life, who was also a kimchee girl but straight. I don't blame her for dumping me. She was perfection itself and I was ... me. After near suicidal depression lasting for 6 months, I went to a massage parlor. It was run by Asian women. After a massage the girl asked me if I wanted anything else. I said, not unless you could kill me. She came back with ropes and tied me up. I really didn't know what she was up to. Then she beat the living hell out of me. Somehow that cured my depression but I have been hooked on pain ever since. I need 6 to 10 heavy beatings a year to feel like myself. Other than that I am very normal and productive.
Thanks for taking the time to respond. I want to come see you within the next 3 months. I'll write when I can arrange it."
First of all his past 'experience' seems like a complete made up fantasy. I mean a massage girl beating up her massage parlor client after he says, not unless you kill me?? Yeah right. He wasted my time, which is another affirmation that guys who do not take the time to write are also not worth writing back. Grrrrr ... now I want to beat up someone. I will call up philippe tomorrow because I know he can take a serious beating.
And before I write another blog, I am going to bed.
November 15th, 1:03pm
I just wanted to update this blog by saying that I have now been accused of being a fake. LOL some guys haven't got a clue. The moment they have been flushed, they immediately claim you're fake. Whatever, it's not like I care really. I suppose that since they know themselves to be fakers, then everyone else is one too. I could be wrong but I haven't met many interesting subs on collarme. I am beginning to think that it's a bunch of losers and wannabe submissives. I don't think I have met a good candicate yet, but I will keep my profile. Truthfully I visit the forms now. There are at least REAL people who are into the BDSM lifestyle and I have learnt a lot by reading their opinions and rants.
Often I am taken out to expensive dinners, taken out shopping, run errands for me, be my chauffeur of the day and they send me cash. It is so sweet getting these payments into my Niteflirt account.
Take Mr. Fromage, he's decided to go on a trial of 90 days as my financial slave. I gave him the option of paying $50, $100, or $250 per week. And he opted for $250. I am just purring with delight when I saw this .... and it was super easy too. Mind you, he did listen to several of my recordings more than once so I knew he was serious and very interested. And today at my request, he sent me a $150 amazon gift card. I should get my 3 seasons of Charmed in the mail soon :D I consider this my early Christmas present.
I enjoy exploiting these cash piggies because I can. I figure that if I have the goods (looks and attitude) I might as well use it to my advantage. Plus I am not forcing anyone to contribute to my lifestyle, this is done out of their free will because, get this they WANT to be used and abuse. And use and abuse I will. Now to figure out who will pay my rent too ... will it be you?
It's an old computer, Pentium 3, 550mhz, 10 gig HD, and 300 something memory card. I am soooo due for a new computer. It would be awesome if someone where to send me a gift computer. I think I will put that on my wishlist. So if you have deep pockets and want to spoil this Domina, then get me a new computer :D
But computer problems are not all that I have. The damn internet doesn't work all the time even though I pay $50 per month for 'ultra' high speed. There are certain times of the day where I can't even use the internet! Like take now for instance, it's 10pm and I see my modem is not 100% connected and this happens every single day. I am switching over to Videotron ... they're cheaper and from what I hear offer even better service. *Sigh* We've been so depended on technology these days, that when something fuck-ups we get really stressed.
Friday, November 11
When I first started I had no clue what to say. I was on my own making some easy money. Not once did I work for an agency and read scripts. That simply was not my style, and I wanted to be genuine. I enjoyed talking on the phone with these horny men all over the world. But what I absolutely loved the most was to dominate and control them with my seductive voice. It seems that I had a knack of finding out what they wanted to talk about, and I simply weaved my own ideas into their fantasy. Once in awhile I enjoy talking about vanilla sex, but I get such a rush tormenting and humiliating submissive men over the phone.
Tonight was no different. Tonight I wanted to hurt. Tonight I was on a roll to humiliate.
First call was with a gentleman who worked in a field of authority. But he secretly craved to be used and humiliated. I was on my sofa watching t.v when I thought .... why not have him hump HIS sofa. Actually I was quite amused with the thought. So I commanded him to hump his furniture like a horny dog. The moans and groans coming from him made me laugh even harder. He was actually getting turned on! So I had his place his penis in between the cushions and fuck that way. "Oh feel the rough material over that pathetic cock of yours. Feels good huh?" I had him cum in his cushions. Priceless.
Next call was a role-play. Yet another who craves to be humiliated. So I had him go to the kitchen and slather some hot sauce over his penis and penis hole. It stung a little, so he says. Hmmm not enough, I think to myself. Well I then had his drip hot sauce over his fingers and had him pump his ass. He imagined himself being fucked by my black dildo while he fingered himself. Another fun moment.
And finally the 3rd was a painful call. He was from the UK and you can imagine how open-minded these guys are. He craved to be hurt by a Mistress. And hurt him I did. I enjoy CBT and stomping on a penis really makes me smile. I had his place his balls and penis on a side table. Then ordered him to close his hand into a fist. "Now stomp your penis with your fist you little bitch!" Ouch. He pleaded me not to do it a second time. And being the person who likes opposites, I had him stomp two more times.
There were a couple of other calls tonight ... but these were the three amusing ones of the day.
Tuesday, November 8
Now I have changes my mail setting to automatically send messages from submissives with no profiles to my bulk folder. That pretty much saves me a headache. I find that most with no profiles are likely to be lazy when writting a Mistress. Well that's my findings anyways.
Friday, November 4
Ok, here is my personal philosophy.
A submissive is simply there for my amusement. He serves me, adores me, worships me and spoils me. I can and will do anything I want with my submissive (of course keeping within SSC)
I prefer to play with submissives who expect nothing in return except the satisfaction of making me happy. Because he knows his role in life, which is to serve his Goddess. Afterall I view myself this way and I expect no less.
There will be no mention of vanilla sex, oral gratification or intimate body worship with me. I am a professional Domina and this is not allowed. Plus no submissives in my eyes are worthy of such a priviledge. So better lock away that idea and toss away the key now.
I will expect a submissive to have an open-mind about any activities that I will experiment with. Of course your fetishes will be taken into consideration, but I will be the one in control at all times. So I make the rules and you will abide by them. This is no McDonalds where you can order me to perform certain acts. I do as I so well please. And the earlier that you realize this, the better our time together.
I am a lifestyle Domina. I command respect at all times. Any disobedience will be punished accordingly.
Are you ready to submit to me fully? Or is this just a fantasy for you to try out? I only play with the most sincere and willing submissive. No more and no less.
Perhaps this will shed some light on my personal thoughts which will better guide you when submitting to me.
Tuesday, October 25
Here's a little preview.
I opted for the KISS system (Keep it simple stupid)
I am excited to see it up in a few days.
Monday, October 17
I don't have a low self esteem anymore. Since I have learned to live with it and concentrate on other important things in my life. I friend and family who support me, I have a good sense of humour, I am an artist, I am doing what I love, I have complete control of my life, and I am my own boss.
But inspite of my acceptance of acne, I am still on the look for new ways to improve my skin. I bought myself a book which explains how to get rid of acne but the natural way, "Clear Skin" by Karen Jessett from acne-advice.com. I will give it a try since I no longer think than pills and creams will work on me. I've tried and it has failed me miserably. I hope that some day soon I will have clear skin, but until then I still feel like I am blessed and lucky.
Saturday, October 15
nathalie: Hello Mistress I would like to be your slave/submissive
(included is a cute pic of an asian girl - which clearly seems like it was downloaded off the internet)
Jade: Hello, like ALL male submissives you will have to respond to questionaire. So you are no different. Besides I think that you are a fake. Prove Me wrong by send a picture of yourself with a note saying "I am proving myself worthy to Domina Jade" and I might consider your application. If not I deem you a fake and will BLOCK you.
nathalie: I think you are fake.
Jade. Oh did I hurt your feelings for calling your bluff?? Oh boohoo. I think you have a little weiner which is why you hide behind that 'face'. But consider yourself lucky since most submissives pay Me for this type of humiliation. LOL
Send message and block user.
I really hate fakes and posers. If I encounter another, I will chew him/her out and spit em out. I have NO tolerance for anyone who wastes my time.
*sigh* end of rant.
Friday, October 14
Tonight I wore my new leather pumps with stilleto heels and thigh high stockings with a line running up the back thigh. It was a sexy combo. My pvc bustier was starting to peel. I did not want to ruin it even more so I wore my black satin bra and pvc mini skirt to the session. It was definitely a special night for the submissive as I usually do no bare my bra.
I started with some light domination like foot worship. He, as I understand has a light foot fetish. I had him kneel in front of me as I sat in the throne and watched him worship my feet and heels. I enjoy seeing submissives worship below me. It's this sensation I get, sort of like a high for controlling someone.
Next I did some light corporal punishment on his cute little hiney. He has a full ass, nice and fleshy. And ohhh did it turn pink very nicely. I flogged him and spanked him with my paddle just to see how he could take it. He wasn't such a masochist as he led me to believe from his e-mails. But I stilled enjoyed disciplining him nonetheless.
I proceeded to some CBT because it is one of my favorite activities. He was chained by the wrists while I caned his genitalia. I saw him wince and heard his sharp inhale as he was taking in my punishment. I like it when submissives do not whine and bitch. However, I didn't go as hard as I usually would go on my regular submissives. To me sub. p was just a novice so it would have been really inhumane of me to dish out the hard stuff right away. I may be sadistic but I still practice 'safe, sane and consensual' practices and always respect a submissive's limits. It is very important that other D/s players realize this as well.
I couldn't help but see that he was oozing pre-cum. So I teased him for having a hard on and made him confess his sins. Made him shy for talking about masterbation and viewing porno sites. And then spanked his with my hands for being such a naughty boy. By now I noticed that he made a bit of a mess on the floor. Being the 'evil' Mistress that I am, I made him lick every spot of pre-cum off the floor. It was a humiliating task for him but it certainly puts a smile on my face.
It was almost time to end the session and since he had been obedient I allowed him to cum before the session ended. However there was a twist. I attached clothespins to his scotom and started twisting and pinching the pins. I told him that he had the next 10 minutes to cum or not cum at all. It was so much fun watching his try to concentrate on the task at hand, pun intended, while I did everything to twist his balls and pinch him harder. And luckily for him, he came just on the nick of time too.
Overall it was a nice session with the young submissive. I hope to see him again. But next time I think he'd look very pretty in a dress.