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Merry Christmas

In case I don't blog again during the holidays, I want to take a moment to wish all my close friends and submissives a very merry or spanking Christmas. May you continue on to the next year with good health and lotsa play. A special thanks to my dear friend Mistress Jade Dragon who has provided such a supportive shoulder and many laughs. Kisses. I had so much fun playing at private and public parties alike. My most memorable moments are usually sitting on the old arm couch at Jules place sharing Domme stories. To all my dear submissives who have helped enlighten me by making use of your body so I can experiment with new toys or use of my sadistic mind. I thank you very much. I look forward to a whole new year of self discovery, explorations and new faces as well as old. As with every year that will come to pass, take a moment and reflect on what you have accomplished so far. So Have a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Hugs to all my friends, and spanks to all my submissives

When jokes turn out the truth

One day at work, I decided to wear all black with just a wide leather belt with zippers and metal studs. A co-worker said as a joke, "Oh I know where you are going tonight, you are a dominatrix because of that belt you're wearing" I laughed with her and simply said, "yes you got me there I am going to whip a submissive real good tonight" And that was the absolute truth! Oh my god. Of all days to have her say that. I did have a session after work. I had left all my gear in a locker at a mall downtown so my bag wouldn't be checked at the end of my shift. If only people knew what I do on my days off. LOL. So has anybody else had similar experiences?? Do share :) Domina Jade

Time to do another review: BadAss Tire Paddle

It's amazing what you can see when you google yourself. Actually in my case not so amazing since my site still ranks no. 1 for "Domina Jade." But that's not the point. The point is the fourth ranking is Burning Rubber's comment about my review that I made early this year when a sub bought me a tire paddle for my birthday. Since it's my birthday soon JANUARY 19TH ;P and it's time for me to get a new paddle. Why not get the right size 17" paddle for me so I can do another review. (hint hint) Actually I would LOVE to get new toys to use and abuse on a sub, then do more reviews. So to all you subs who want to be extra generous please get me the following: Versatile Gag Whips and Nylon floggers Glass Dildo I may or may not review this hehe. TENS unit Cupping set If there is a toy that you'd like to give me then I'd be more than happy to use it on you. Be sure to contact me first in case I already have one. xoxo Domina Jade p.s I am on Jane's

It's a sad and tragic day - school shooting

There was a shooting at a college here in my home town. One fatality and at least a dozen others hurt. My heart and prayers go out to the victims of the school shooting that happened today at Dawson College. I am greatly affected because not only did I go to that school, but so does my little brother who is taking classes this semester. The moment that I heard what was going on, I was in a panick and called him up. He is fine, right now safe at home. However he was in a class perhaps 20 feet away from where the shooting took place. It will take a few days to recover over this, even though I did not personally witness or experience this terrible and senseless rampage. I only hope that those who have been hurt will be okay as some are in critical condition. It's even sadder that we just remembered the 9/11. And only 2 days after the anniversary, this happens. I think that I'll donate blood very soon. It's the least that I can do. Today is a sad, sad day. For more news covera

Weekend Play in the Outdoors

I finally realized one of my fantasies, and that is to have a play scene out in the secluded woods. Sub y and I spent saturday night and most of sunday at a chalet up north. I feel so pampered and spoiled. The fact that there's no running water at the chalet, sub y had to work a bit harder by fetching water from a spring for my morning bath. Also I was feeling a bit sick so he was a complete sweetheart making my tea, getting cough syrup, and making sure that I was doing fine. Before going to bed on saturday night, we had a little wax play. I LOVE pouring hot wax onto a submissive, almost as much as having wax poured over me. To me, candle wax play can be quite a sensual experience. To have the wax droplets hit your skin to create intense heat then feel it cool off. Wax can be used to decorate your body like art. Depending on where the wax hits, it can be from medium pain to intense pain ... but only for a second. Unless you build up the intensity by letting wax drop over the same s

I'm back and so much better :-)

Well I decided to give you guys a treat on Niteflirt. Basically I had reduced my rate down to .99 only for Sunday. And boy did I get tons of calls. It was truly so much fun humiliating my little sissy sluts, gang-bang a cuckold, role-play the naughty boss, and of course I even offered cam. Those called me on the on Niteflirt and actually got to cum ... better leave me positive feedback before your next call with me. And for the other losers who hung up after 3 minutes, don't even bother calling me back cause I blocked your sorry ass. I had daniel5496 on cam today. I must admit he was quite a looker, however he was expecting some pussy action. I mean like HELLO! you called the Mistress cam you dumbass. I don't mind being an exhibitionist especially when I feel naughty, however do not ever expect it from me. I will do whatever I want on cam. He did not jump the hoops to get my attention, even said, "I don't take orders too well ... besides I didn't even see your tits

Missed me?? New updates to my site

I know, it's been awhile since I lasted posted. Let me see what did I do while I was away??? Well I have been working (normal job) going out to play parties, water slides, and just enjoying the summer. I have not been dominating submissives very much either in real time or on the phone. But now that the weather is cooling off a little bit, I will be staying home more often. My website is pretty much completed. I will add more pics along the way. Have a few photoshoots set up this month. So be sure to bookmark www.DominaJade.ca if you haven't already. Also on Niteflirt I will set up cam again. If you are admiring me from afar, and cannot see me personally then you can call me on NF and view my cam. If you cannot join NF because of your country then you can still view my cam on Eyeball and Yahoo. You will need to have AlertPay for this option to work. Furthermore, I am looking for both female and male submissives for possible fetish video/photo production. Go to my website for th

Best parties are the ones next door

Oh my freakin god ... my head is buzzing fro partying all night until 8am in the morning. It was a total blast. I love living next to students, because they love to party and chances are I can crash in :) Which is exactly what I did last night. I was about to go to sleep at around midnight when I heard some awesome techno and trance music from upstairs. I had forgotten that it was someone's birthday in the apartment. Not one to miss all the action, I freshened up and went to greet my new neighbors. It was such a sight to see like 30-50 people dancing and all crammed up in a 3 1/2. They brought in 6 different DJs to really liven the party. Everyone was simply enjoying the techno beat. I will check out rave parties more often because I love the high octane dancing. To feel my body move and feel so in sync with the music. I just want to lose myself. By morning, I made some new friends. Of course I was getting very hungry so I cooked breakfast for everyone invited. My apartment was jus

Annoying yahoo sluts ... and good sluts

"Hi I am ..... - wanna cam?" "So just how kinky are you?" "You wanna chat? I am handsome, blah, blah, blah" So I have a yahoo profile, which clearly states that I am a professional Domme. I have my website listed as well as Niteflirt. But of course, yahoo sluts don't read. What is a yahoo slut? A wanker who peruses the profiles. If they see a pretty picture, then they will IM you out of the blue. Most like their profile is pretty much worthless so you know they are just trying to get a free wank session. But once in a blue moon I will get a slut that I absolutely adore. A financial slut. Those I will use for my own enjoyment as they tribute their way into my world. Sometimes I will put on my cam after they have proven their worth to me, over and over again. So how do you become a good financial slut? Firstly tribute for my time accordingly. I will not chat with you for free. You want to talk to me then either use Niteflirt or pay to serve me. A good wa

Must Have - The Better Built Bondage Book

Mistress Jade Dragon had shown me this book The Better Built Bondage Book at a previous BBQ party. I think that every kinkster who wants to make their own equipement should get TBBBB. It's budget friendly since most toys found in the book are relatively inexpensive to make. It give very concise instructions and the photos are pretty nice to look at. Go visit the TBBBB site for more info. While you're there get me a copy as well ;) ~Domina Jade

Busy Weekend

Oooooooh my aching feet. I have been on my feet either dancing or dominating on friday and saturday night. Yesterday I was working. So I've been busy having fun for most of the weekend. On friday I went clubbing and danced my feet off. I wore heels that I have not worn since last summer. Big mistake. By the end of the night I limped out of the club. I had to take my heels off, which I did. I felt so good to feel my bare feet against the cold hard pavement. Had to watch out for broken glass though. On saturday I had a very good session with another new submissive. He enjoys heavier pain. I loooooooove to play hard. It gives me an adrenaline rush everytime I bring out a different toy to abuse him with. I used a couple of pervertables such as a metal bristled dog brush. It will get a submissive to jump with you brush against his nipples. I also used these adorable mini clothespins. You can get them at most craft stores. Thanks Maddog for the idea. These mini clothespins may look cute,

Boxing and stinky feet

So I had a session last night with a new submissive. I love playing with new submissives because it gives me a sense of excitement as I explore what buttons to push. I love to see them squirm when I dish out the punishments which later end with a reward (if they deserve it). This submissive, we'll call him mad4mitts has a fetish for boxing gloves and stinky feet. I've never boxed before so I was looking forward to try on the gloves for the first time. Prior to the session, I envisioned myself beating the daylights out of the submissive because, well I wanted to. Punching the submissive in the face, giving him side jabs to the ribs, and of course pummeling his cock. I even chuckled to myself as I thought about kneeing him in the the place where 'sun don't shine' and watching him drop to the floor crying. Unfortunately my session didn't go that way. He was simply too old for my beatings - so I spared him. However I wasn't going to let him go so easily. If I co

Kinky Pool Party

I can't think of anything better to celebrate Canada Day than a kinky pool party. The party was hosted by a couple well known in the BDSM community because of KINK. I got to see and have fun with all my kinky friends; Mistress Jade Dragon (see her blog ), Michael, Sir Marc, and Maddog. What a great way to start the summer. There was good food, good music, a cold pool, and an open fire. I managed to fit into bikini but will get a new bathing suit because the ass part is getting loose. In the pool we were running around to make whirlwinds then floated with the motion on boogie boards. We were silly and acted like a bunch of kids, but hey it summer. Plus who says we can't act like kids once in awhile. I was given a tour of the house and cozy dungeon. I must admit it was quite small, given the 9x9 room. However they fixed the room perfect for two without being too crowed. It has a nice Egyptian theme and I absolutely adore the wood boards across one wall to serve as a bondage are

Move's Over

Well my move has been without any major headaches. I had my friends help me out and I could not have had my move without them. Now I am settled in my new apartment. I love my new space. What I love about this place is that it's close to all amenities and it's just a 20 minute metro ride to downtown. There are still some things that I need to do before I feel like it's home, such as painting and buying some new curtains. I have plenty of storage space. In fact I have a cellar that is placed underneath some stairs. What's great is that I can transform that cellar into a cage for a disobedient pet or just someone who loves cages. I will have someone place a wrought iron gate behind the door so it's discreetly hidden from the 'vanilla' folk. My office is will be set in a way that I can move around furniture to accomodate a dungeon. I plan on getting a cross, a spanking bench and a bondage chair. I think those are the basics which suit me fine. I don't need

How can you help me? Gag

I love toys. I love my floggers, paddles, strap-on's, and of course my gags. And I love it even more when a toy can actually serve a purpose. The "How may I serve you" Gag series are ingenious. I absolutely love the idea of snapping different attachments to serve a different purpose. I can just imagine and fantasize my submissive on hands and knees in front of my toilet bowl cleaning it with the brush attachment. Wouldn't you want that priviledge, slave? To clean my house with the use of your mouth. Having your hands tied behind your back while you do the housechores. It would be quite amusing to see. Don't you think? For more information about this toy visit my Wishlist Better yet, buy it for me. But do it quick because JT's Stockroom is having a 10% discount on selected items bought from my wishlist for this week only. I expect many toys in my mailbox :D ~Domina Jade

These losers should get a life

Sometimes I get requests to add to my MSN from people I don't know. Normally I deny that request because I prefer receiving an e-mail first. I am not on MSN all the time and when I am on, I tend to chat with people that I have already met. But today I decided to add Jack onto my list then go online to see who this is. This is sorta how the conversation goes ... 'My friends say you are a whore, do you want the details' then another box opens up and all of a sudden I am chatting with 2 other strangers. And they launch into bashing me. At this point I blocked all of them because this is a complete waste of my time, which confirms why I usually deny chat requests. To: ashesofthefetus@hotmail.com killer_thirst@hotmail.co.uk never-gonna-keep-me-down@hotmail.com I have better things to do than to debate whether or not what I do is whorish. If you have problems with what I do, then I don't give a flying fuck. So get a life rather than playing your pathetic games online. Here

Argaive photos now available

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Sunday session with sub yves

Today was absolutely gorgeous. What a perfect day to have a session too. Sub yves and I had exchanged emails and spoken a few times on Niteflirt. So by the time we finally met in person, I knew him enough to be comfortable playing with him. Prior to the session I broke out my chunky open toed sandals. Since it has been awhile since I wore them, my feet were aching by time I arrived at the dungeon. So guess who got to rub my feet. What a pleasant surprise when sub yves presented me with a present. He bought a tube top dress with a glitery dragon in front and black pantyhose also with dragons. These thoughtful gestures certainly do put a smile on my face. Truthfully I haven't been in the best moods lately but sub yves really did cheer me up. Thank you yves. A funny story about the purchase. Yves went a sex store located outside of Montreal. The saleswoman was someone in her fifties. She asked yves if he was buying for his girlfriend, to which he responded that it's the first time

Non-kinky's night out

I almost did not go to Inferno because I lacked transportation there. However I convinced my non-kinky friend to come out with me. It was so last minmute (started chatting on msn at 10:58pm) that we missed a good portion of CMF's show. Oh well, maybe next time. Even though I brought my bag of goodies with me, I ended dancing the whole night. The music was good, we were non stop on the dance floor the whole night through. I think that next time I will tour the play area a little bit more a snag myself a willing victim. I love to play in public. Come to think of it, I should have given my friend a tour of the play area. Perhaps next time if he decides to go to another fetish party. Too bad he's not of submissive nature, I would have enjoyed tying him up and spanking him. I do enjoy rosy cheeks :D Well, there are many others who'd love to get their ass spanked by me. And I will do so with a smile. ~Domina Jade

My fetish list for my new apartment

Today I have signed my lease to my new apartment which I get to move in for July. Now the only thing that I have to think of next is packing my things and the moving day madness. But I will worry about that later. For the next couple of weeks I am going to concentrate on getting supplies and furniture for my very own dungeon! I am absolutely ecstatic about playing whenever I want in my own privacy. I can invite my kinky friends over or even have extended play with submissives. But of course I have to have my dungeon filled with the essentials. A couple of things that I will require: Spreader bars in various lengths Wrist and ankle cuffs Plenty of bondage rope in different thicknesses Metal hooks and rings Candles Spanking bench Industrial roll of plastic wrap Non-kinky items in large quantity: Towels Paper towels Baby wipes latex gloves So if you want to see that I get what I want and need for my new dungeon then contribute to my "Dungeon Fund" I accept NF and PP donations. E

Spoil your Mistress today and tomorrow always

I get quite a few regular callers on Niteflirt. The topic of discussion varies from feminization, financial domination to playing out different role-plays. My favorite are of course financial domination. I get so much satisfaction out of submissives emptying their wallets and paying my bills. Take slaverick, he simply cannot get enough of me. He's been my paypig for several months. It started off slowly as I would have him pay for my pictures at a higher price, because I can. He's been sending me cash at least every week. And now he's upgraded to paying my rent. Today he accepted a payment request from paypal for $250, and he will accept another $250 on NF. So he's currently in my Hall of Fame among submissives. In no time he will have sent me hundreds and soon thousands. I have others who enjoy spoiling me like malcolm who is also my panty slut. I sent him my worn panties to sniff and worship. It should arrive in his mailbox pretty soon. I've sent him audio instruc

Argaive Photography

Sweet! The long awaited pics from Argaive are almost ready. Here are a few samples of the beautiful photography we came up with. Enjoy! Domina Jade

Nipple Torture

I had a marvelous time last night with my good friend philippe. We started playing at around midnight and finished the scene by 2am. He's such a nipple torture slut. Afterwards when I saw how big and perky his nipples were I remarked that he can now fit into an A cup lol. Here are some photos to look at: We haven't played in two months. So last night, it was a blast seeing him suffer for me again. It's not everyday that I get to play with such a pain slut that when I do play, it's a real treat for me. I love watching him moan in sweet agony as I perform my nipple tortures, cbt, bondage, caning, and spanking. LOVE IT. Now I need a bit of practice with my caning techniques and so he showed me an extreme caning website Mood Pictures. Talk about hardcore and extreme caning sessions. I don't think that I am at that level quite yet. I know that philippe is capability of taking that sort of torture so when I am ready hopefully he will be my subject. Well it's another

Cabaret Mado

Yesterday was absolutely gorgeous. I took my bike out and rode out to check an apartment for rent. Turns out that I love the place. Hopefully I will be accepted as a tenant. The nice weather has been encouraging me to ride my bike everywhere. Pretty soon I will have buns of steel. Also my thighs and calves will be a power to be reckoned with when I kick my submissives in the ass LOL. I did 3 hours of biking without much pain unlike the last time (I now have gel seats to cushion my lovely bum) so no more complaining from me ;) By the time I got home it was 7pm - I felt restless and didn't want to stay home. So I called up my good friend philippe. We went out to St. Denis, had coffee and just caught up on news and life. It was a perfect night, just a little breeze not too cold and not too hot. Everything was great until a pebble shot into my plate, good thing I just finished. Construction on St Denis makes everything dusty - especially with the afternoon walking traffic. So we contin

Moving Day headaches

So, did everyone have a pleasant Easter this weekend? I had a very quiet weekend as I don't celebrate Easter, however I don't mind getting chocolates LOL. I am now on a a veggie diet to flush out the impurities in my system. Spoiling myself with chocolate was not all I had done .. I did take a *few* calls on Nitefirt and checked the newspaper for a new apartment. Moving is such a hassle here in Montreal. I think we're the only city that has July 1st as a moving day and it's the dumbest ritual ever. So I trying on finding a place for June in order to bypass the moving day headache. Then I have to consider renting a moving truck and hire men to move my stuff. And I have A LOT of stuff. But once it's all over, I will have fun painting and decorating my own place. No roomates with different decorating styles, no disagreements, no sharing bathrooms, and dammit I can walk naked in the apartment if I want to. Yup, I am looking forward to moving out and starting fresh. Now

Not much of a Dominant?

Here is my conversation on msn with a submissive from Lavalife. thomas: hello Ma'am Domina Jade: hello Domina Jade: so I granted you permission to chat with me for a bit on msn thomas: thank you Ma'am thomas: you are looking for a masochist ? Domina Jade: absolutely thomas: as a personal sub to you Ma'am? Domina Jade: well that option might be available but it all depends thomas: may i ask on what Ma'am? Domina Jade: well for one thing I don't want a do-me submissive thomas: no Ma'am Domina Jade: When I choose a submissive it will be on my terms thomas: but i may not like all your likes and do have my own limits... Domina Jade: well of course and I respect that thomas: somehow i knew that Domina Jade: I don't like someone dictating what I can do thomas:i see Domina Jade: however I will push limits thomas: you mean not dictating my hard limits Ma'am? Domina Jade: not quite, it's more like telling me to do this and that without considering what I want

Review for Fetish4Play and Fetish Fool's Ball

I had a BLAST partying at both Fetish4Play and Fetish Fool's Ball. Both parties were well planned out and I am all partied out! Friday night was the Fetish Expo at the Fetish4Play where local crafts people display their fetish talents. It varied from photography, custom made floggers, paddles, humblers, figurines, and jewelry. It was a fantastic night to see them showcase their work. During the party we were entertained by a demo performed by Master Luk, Calamity and Freaky Nat. It was sexy and highly entertaining. Saturday night was the Fetish Fool's Ball at Bain Mathieu. I was absolutely awestruck during the whole event. There was an empty pool at the center which people can dance in, a projection screen inside a large ball hanging from the ceiling, dancing performers all night through, an acrobat performance with ceiling drapes, kickass DJ, big play area, and lounge area that can be entered by the side of the pool. The whole night was phenomenal - I believe these types

Favorite Role-Plays

Quite often I get requested to role-play. This can either be in person or on the phone. While I enjoy role-play scenarios there are some scenes that hold a special place in my wicked heart. Medical Role-Play I play the naughty nurse or doctor, and the submissive plays the patient. What I love is using the stainless steel equipement and prodding it into the patient. Or wrapping the patient in bandage - sorta like bondage for me. As a child I did not get a chance to play doctor too often, maybe it is now that I am catching up ;) Prison Role-Play I play the guard and the submissive is the prisoner. Hmmm, I just want to play rough and hold the prisoner to the wall and frisk him. Do a thorough inspections check before entering his caged chambers. I find that walking around with a baton and tapping it in my hand while staring down the prisoner is pretty hot. Disciplinary Role-Play This can involve either a teacher and her student or the lieutenant and the soldier. The main idea here is behav

Fetish To Do List

There are still some fetishes or activities that I would love to try but have not due to lack of opportunity or equipment. I have a fascination with medical play, but there are not too many submissives out there who have shown the same interest. Plus medical play would require sounds and speculums, well a lot of goodies which I currently do not have so it’s on my wishlist. There’s something naughty about playing nurse and doing a body examination. *Grin* Oh what fun I will have as I strap you down onto a medical table as I perform my inspections. Say “Ahhhhhhh” Something else that I want to explore a lot further is suspension bondage. I want to learn the proper rope methods and suspend the submissive from a high ceiling. To see the submissive bound, gagged and blindfolded creates a warm stir inside of me. With the ass up in the air it gives me a wicked urge to spank it pink or maybe even blue. And once done with the spanking, the ass is ready to take on my strap-on as the finishing to

It’s not as bad as you think

Recently I had a good session with a novice. The submissive was so new to the scene that I teasingly called him a ‘baby’ submissive. However he was quite eager to learn and experience something new. He demonstrated obedience, respect, and an open-mind – qualities that I look for in a submissive. The dungeon has a throne chair that doubles as a stocks device. The submissive can kneel and place his head securely through the chair then his wrist is tied to the side of the chair. I had ‘baby’ submissive restrained, blindfolded and helpless as I tickled him with a feather and did some sensation play. At one point, I told him that I’d pour hot wax all over his body. The submissive was quite adamant not to try. He already had preconceived ideas that it would burn the flesh and be a bad experience. To ease his doubts, I said that I will pour wax on my hand so I know how it feels. (Personally I love the feeling of hot wax on my body – but that’s another story) I then poured the wax on his hand

A Day of Pampering and Spoiling

Today I was treated to a manicure and pedicure by my new submissive, slave georges. Actually I told him to treat me to a day of pampering the Mistress because I deserve it. Well, he couldn’t object to my request since he agrees that it is a privilege to serve me anyway. While I was at the salon I sent slave georges to pick up a couple of things for my office. I am using this new program from Skype so I needed a chat headset. Stay tuned for my distance training programs for international submissives who cannot join Niteflirt For what I thought would last one hour, the whole manicure/pedicure actually took a little over 2 hours. It started with a nice foot soak, followed by a foot rub. It felt so good to have my feet massaged and rid of any rough spots. Summer is right around the corner, so I will need to have my feet taken care of for sandal season. What a great way to tease all you foot fetishists ;) Once everything dried off, I put on my boots but didn’t actually button it close. I ar

My Fascination with Waxing

Last saturday, boytoy j and I went to a private party. It was his first time going to a Montreal private party so I wanted to prep him for the party. I decided that it was time to wax the hair from his back. He had a patch of hair at the nape of his neck and down the lower back. I don't mind hair, in fact I love to scratch his hairy chest or warm my feet there but back hair is something I am not too fond of. So it had to go. I bought my waxing kit with him a couple of days earlier so he knew what I had in store for him. He simply did not know when. boytoy arrived a couple of hours before the party, that's when I decide to cuff him with his leather restraints and tie his wrists over his head. I attached his ball gag harness over his head so my roomate could not hear him scream as I ripped the wax strips off his back. It was so amusing to see him shudder and yell against his gag. At one point I ripped two strips at the same time. THAT was a huge ouchie. I love spreading the warm

The Joys of a CB cage

I absolutely love the idea of torturing the sub's most vulnerable part, their cock and balls. It is a piece of flesh hanging out there totally exposed. And it is often their measure of their ego and manliness. But I usually don't see them bragging about their penis once I squeeze their balls real tight. boytoy j and I went to see the Olypic Stadium on Saturday. But before we left, I made him wear his CB cage. It's such a lovely piece of equipement - made of leather and squeezes every part together tightly. Took him awhile to put it on, well it means he actually has something to put in. *Grin* What we secretly share is his humiliation while he wore the cage in public. I delighted in reminding him about his predicament everytime I secretly rubbed his crotch. Usually it is meant to pleasure but in his case he hurts from my touch. He wore the cage for 7 hours. He felt the discomfort with every moment together, especially as I whispered wicked thoughts into his ear which would

Realities of Phone Sessions

I had spoken to a submissive who has feminization fantasies. I thought it was a very good call, as we role-played my strap-on on my little sissy slut. However I get back a 5 star feedback with this note: "i enjoyed the call but was hoping to speak with a real time asian dominatrix.not sure if i can find one on keen.she has a very sexy voice." 2.13.2006 The insinuation that I am not a 'real time asian dominatrix' is a real disappointment. And here is what I think about this comment. First of all when calling any phone operator or Mistress for a phone session understand that there are certain limitations like lack of touch, lack of equipment, lack of space, and lack of submissive. So when a submissive calls and says he would like to serve me but happens to be miles away, short of turning this into a financial domination session there's not much that I can do. I can however stimulate your mind when I weave elaborate stories or launch in session details. When I receiv

BadAss Rubber Paddle

I have met sub. alex on several occasions either at a play space or for a session. he is, in my opinion a very good submissive to experiment on. he previously bought me a rubber paddle made out of recycled tires. I love the concept and you can buy it here Here is my review on the Original BadAss 22" When I first held it in my hand, I could definitely feel the weight. It's heavy and long, so you have to get use to the feeling and try to balance when spanking someone. The handle is made of metal with a rubber/plastic sleeve. It does have a metal ring to hang against the wall, which can be quite useful. The 22" paddle is probably not the best choice for me because I have small hands and it is on the heavy side. Also be vigilant when spanking someone continuously because you hands will feel slippery from sweat on the plastic sleeve. The paddle gives a nice thuddy feeling, but it will leave marks if you swing harder with the shoulders. The paddle did give alex's bum che

An annoying call

This month has been quiet in terms on real time sessions. But that doesn't mean I will be desperate and accept just anybody. richard, was referred to me several months ago. However a couple of minutes into the conversation I immediately thought "wanker" and rejected his request to see me. However he persistently calls to see if I would change my mind about him. Well his ideal session would be that I would jerk him off while dominating him. He feels that 'we' would benefit since he plans on seeing me many more times - so he says. Anyway, I have no interest in helping someone cum by my own hand. Not only do I think it an unprofessional practice for a pro-Domme but I think it's 'gross' for lack of a better word. Oh he's persistent I must admit, and he convinced me to have dinner with him. The day that he called, I was in a happy mood so he struck lucky. Dinner was fine, however in his mind he regards BDSM in a sexual way. Oh I have no problems with th

Blasting a photo online

I came across a 'princess' blog. You know that ones who are ultra spoiled and expect every submissive to hand over their wallet?? Well she wrote something in her blog that I totally disagree with. A submissive submitted to the 'princess' a photo of his nake wife because he wants to exploit his wife. The princess then posts the photo and has more on her website. Whether or not these photos are real, I am totally appalled by her actions. Because the wife probably has not consented to having her naked photos plastered online. It is one thing to actually talk about the fantasy over the phone, but it's another to actually post someone elses naked pics without their permission. I really do have a problem with 'princesses' who show a lack of ethics and common respect but think that it's okay. I certainly have no problem with embarrassing a submissive online, but only with their consent. I know that I have had lots of fun putting my submissives in humiliating si

Poem

A submissive from my yahoo group sent me this lovely poem. I want to share it: As I cry you take pleasure When I scream you no longer hear you feel When I fuss you lend a deaf ear you refuse to allow me my flight you capture me but your hands remain open you allow me to follow but there are places I cannot go You stick me in a closet for furthur understanding You remain as aloof as Newly fallen snow When and where you go I will follow Through my pain I know you exist in the morning I am again replaced in my bed of fond amusement.

Another e-mail NO NO

This guy from ALT thinks he's some hot shit and e-mails me 3 photos of himself naked. And writes a disgusting e-mail: I would like to lick your wet pussy, and to satisfy you with my cock torstenXXXX@yahoo.de more pictures from me are in the album or in the network I would like fingering yours pussy and rubbing yours clit. , and lick much. fucking your hard doggie style, .slam my cock in your wet cunt! I would like to kiss you and your chests stroke to the nipples am hard. then I would like to suck to your nipples. and with my caught between your lips play to you are completely wet. then I would like with my tongue yours pussy lick to you one orgasmus have. only then I would like with my hard tail to begin, fucking your hard doggie style. and if it does not stand any longer licked I you to I again can, and that I would like to make the whole night, To which I responded: I will be quite generous with my words, because usually I don't respond to disrespecting e-mails like yours. B