Fantasies & Musings of a Dominatrix

I had a very nice evening with sub. philippe tonight. We went to a creperie restaurant and picked up dessert at Kilo. We ordered my favorite, sugar pie. Unfortunately it wasn't that good. Oh well, next time somewhere else. When we arrived at phlippe's place, two nicely wrapped present where on the 'throne.' And I knew it was for me. I took my time unwrapping, careful not to tear the wrapping paper. I delicately took out my first gift with was a beautiful wooden paddle shaped like an old fashion hair brush. Except this was much thicker. The next gift was longer, in fact it was another wooden paddle with holes going through it. It was simply gorgeous and it fit nicely in my hand. It was only until late in the evening that we played. I love testing out new equipment. I laughed wickedly while phlippe groaned and moaned from the pain I had inflicted on him. I also incorporated waxplay into the scene. We both enjoy waxplay a lot. And this time I used two candles at the same t...

This 22 year old submissive male e-mailed me a couple of days earlier saying that he's interested in serving me and that he's been part of the lifestyle for the past 7 years. Well I find that highly doubtful since that would mean he was 15 years old when he started. I can believe that he was curious and that a fetish was a result towards turn of events but to actually be "part" of the lifestyle??? I don't think so. The reason why I do not believe his story is because he would have to interact with like-minded people in the fetish community. And as far as I know, no responsible adult will allow a child of 15 years to part-take in the fetish community. So I told him: "Oh quite impressive to be in the lifestyle for the past 7 years ... that means you started at the prime age of 15 yrs. In that case, please explain how you became involved. I am quite curious how a 15 yr old would be accepted in the fetish community. Domina Jade " He responded today: "i ...

Last night I had a lot of fun on the phone. I talked about feminization, cuckolding, financial slavery, you know the usual. But late last night I decided to go on cam for a submissive who has been trying to see me for a couple of days. But our schedules didn't really click until yesterday. I will call him milkshake because he's got these man boobies, and I made him dance to the tune of the Milkshake song while rubbing his "boobies" LOL that was quite a laugh. Even better was that we remained on cam for 45 minutes, so I milked him dry financially. I made $170 just off of him. Not bad for sitting pretty in front of a cam and directing the submissive to stuff a carrot up his ass. Plus I even made him go into his hamper and get a pair of stinky underwear briefs to put it over his head and cover his face. Hehehe. I am so bad. Oh and he also had to pay the "Cum Tax" because he begged and pleaded to cum but I wouldn't let him until he pay up. Since he's fee...

I had someone respond to me from another forum, CM. Since it's free, I tend to get a lot of letters. Well today I got this long winded letter that seems vaguely familiar. However what struck me as 'fake' what this part: "But I was excited to see your views as it immediately struck a chord with me. Its appealing you are straight forward in your concepts and that you seek devotion, service, and adoration ...such views resonate with me as I understand growth through service." Okay on my CM profile I blatantly say that I am looking for paying submissives. And nowhere did I say that I am looking for devotion, service, and adoration as he mentioned. So this is my response. I don't think you have truely understood my profile..... what you mention is a Mistress who is looking for a committed relationship and no where in my profile does it state that I am looking for such. I am pretty clear when I say that I am looking for a PAYING submissive for the occasional session...

I know that not everyone share the same opinion about pro-Dommes. Some feel that where there's a demand it's okay to fulfill the need and others regard pro-Domme as prostitution and therefore wrong. While I do agree that there are some pros who give this line of work a bad name, not every pro-Domme offers sex and I am certainly one of them. What I do not agree with are those who start preaching that being a pro-Domme is wrong that it's a sin. I was contacted by a member on Collarme, this is how it went: preacher*: "selling sex is wrong" DominaJade: "Oh so we have a prudist here on CM. your opinions about pro Dommes are your right, but don't go preaching your views on me. In case you didn't read my profile in whole there is no mention that I am offering sex. Domina Jade" preacher: "indirectly you are by session, men seek excitement, you sell sex in this way" DominaJade: "Well whatever you say goes in one ear and out the next ear. Tr...

My submissive philippe and I went to a private party east on Montreal. It was the second time that we went to Jules and JulieAnne's dungeon. There are pictures of the dungeon at http://www.bdsmcircle.com . It's a large play space in the basement. The walls are made of reinforced concrete, actually the place use to be a storage for fur coats. The dungeon was discreetly located and no one is the wiser. We arrived at 10pm, and there were a few ppl who arrived before us. Usually the party starts past 11pm. The cocktail dishes that philippe brought in were very good. I couldn't help nibbling throughout the whole evening because I ate little before coming to the party. The action started when a well known bondage fetishist started suspension play with a male submissive. The Dominant was very talented at using shibari techniques and it was quite a learning experience to watch him perform. It took a good 45 minutes to complete the rope bondage and another couple of minutes to unrav...

So I had a session Tuesday afternoon with a new submissive. He came dressed in business attire, clean shaven, I guess your usual strict businessman type. Actually many submissives that I see tend to have high positions and just need to be 'free' and lose their inhibitions when they are with me. I respect their choices and being a submissive does not make them weak ... even though I do play the "I am superior than thou" in my sessions. But realistically I regard my clients as human beings first and foremost. I entered the room wearing my pvc mini skirt and fishnet top that showed my black bra underneath. My usual pvc top had ripped, I need to have that fixed. Well sub Al was mesmerized by my presence. I knew he has an ass fetish and so I flaunted mine as I walked in front of him. He needed to be spanked as he hadn't been spanked in awhile. But first he was to crawl to me and lick every inch of my lovely heels. I love to see a submissive on their hands and knees ......

One of the good things of being a sexy female is that we can take advantage of men :D Often I am taken out to expensive dinners, taken out shopping, run errands for me, be my chauffeur of the day and they send me cash. It is so sweet getting these payments into my Niteflirt account. Take Mr. Fromage, he's decided to go on a trial of 90 days as my financial slave. I gave him the option of paying $50, $100, or $250 per week. And he opted for $250. I am just purring with delight when I saw this .... and it was super easy too. Mind you, he did listen to several of my recordings more than once so I knew he was serious and very interested. And today at my request, he sent me a $150 amazon gift card. I should get my 3 seasons of Charmed in the mail soon :D I consider this my early Christmas present. I enjoy exploiting these cash piggies because I can. I figure that if I have the goods (looks and attitude) I might as well use it to my advantage. Plus I am not forcing anyone to contribute t...

I offer phone domination through www.niteflirt.com/Domina+Jade. Originally I had started off in the Flirts section, progressed to vanilla phone sex then ended up in domination. I am the type of person to learn everything on my own, regardless if it's the harder way out. What can I say, I am stubborn and do things my way. When I first started I had no clue what to say. I was on my own making some easy money. Not once did I work for an agency and read scripts. That simply was not my style, and I wanted to be genuine. I enjoyed talking on the phone with these horny men all over the world. But what I absolutely loved the most was to dominate and control them with my seductive voice. It seems that I had a knack of finding out what they wanted to talk about, and I simply weaved my own ideas into their fantasy. Once in awhile I enjoy talking about vanilla sex, but I get such a rush tormenting and humiliating submissive men over the phone. Tonight was no different. Tonight I wanted to hurt...

I just sent an e-mail in response to a submissive's application to serve me. The words just flew out as I explained my version of what a submissive is to me. I will repeat it here: Ok, here is my personal philosophy. A submissive is simply there for my amusement. He serves me, adores me, worships me and spoils me. I can and will do anything I want with my submissive (of course keeping within SSC) I prefer to play with submissives who expect nothing in return except the satisfaction of making me happy. Because he knows his role in life, which is to serve his Goddess. Afterall I view myself this way and I expect no less. There will be no mention of vanilla sex, oral gratification or intimate body worship with me. I am a professional Domina and this is not allowed. Plus no submissives in my eyes are worthy of such a priviledge. So better lock away that idea and toss away the key now. I will expect a submissive to have an open-mind about any activities that I will experiment with. Of c...

Tonight I had a session with, to my surprise, quite a young submissive. He is 24 years and a damn good to the eyes too. It simply was delightful to dominate over sub p since I happen to be 24 as well. I can see that he had few experiences and was curious about D/s. He spoke french mostly but still understood english well enough. Tonight I wore my new leather pumps with stilleto heels and thigh high stockings with a line running up the back thigh. It was a sexy combo. My pvc bustier was starting to peel. I did not want to ruin it even more so I wore my black satin bra and pvc mini skirt to the session. It was definitely a special night for the submissive as I usually do no bare my bra. I started with some light domination like foot worship. He, as I understand has a light foot fetish. I had him kneel in front of me as I sat in the throne and watched him worship my feet and heels. I enjoy seeing submissives worship below me. It's this sensation I get, sort of like a high for controll...