Fantasies & Musings of a Dominatrix

Yes I know .... it's been much too long. Don't worry I am still a part of the scene. In fact I am so busy with sessions and fetish parties that I don't have time to write. Or, when I do - I don't know where to start. The month of November has been hectic for me. From making videos, taking live sessions and tormenting submissives to attending parties. I have been one busy Mistress. I had a session with TJ, who took a mental caning from me. We recorded the entire 3 hour session on tape and from the laptop. The video footage is being edited and will be ready in January. Be prepared to see pain and suffering - it's the real deal. During this session I really pushed TJ's limits ... there were screams and tears. But I continued on using a variety of different implements to mark his body black and blue. I felt a real connection that he not only did it to push himself but to also do it for me. I learned to do even more intricate bondage. Now I want to get a bondage bed ...

I had a very intense humiliation session back in October which involves verbal humiliation, penis torture, spitting, degradation, bondage and a very nice kick to the balls. Thank you david for writing the review on your site. Click here to read more. If you had a session with me and wrote a testimonial please leave your comment with the review link. Thank you.

Hello, As you know I just LOVE to cane my submissives. I was caning subp in one of my sessions when I remembered having my laptop nearby. So here we have an impromptu webcam video of the session. The original is 30 minutes long. Please note that I will not be putting it on sale, rather it's a preview of my Caning Special Tuesday when you book a live session with me. Enjoy! (Editing by Slippy Productions ) Thank you subp for allowing me to video tape you. You were a real trooper for taking one hundred lashes . He not only took my bamboo cane but also my wooden paddles, rubber stick, floggers and more. By the end of the session his leathery ass turned a nice shade of dark red and blue. --- Montreal's Premier Asian Mistress www.DominaJade.ca

What a month! Seems like my caning special Tuesdays have stirred a bit of an interest. In fact I am working on a 10-15 sec clip for you to view .... when my updated site is complete. I have enjoyed pushing numerous submissives, one or two even to tears. Actually I want to share a session that I had with T.J. He's the one in the picture with the caning marks that I had shown some month ago. Sometimes the most intense sessions are the ones where I am not in 'Domme' gear. I am talking about the spontaneous because I am in the mood moments. What's special about this session was that I not only pushed T.J to flowing tears but I even pushed myself as a Mistress. I have no problems in pushing the limits of submissives that I come to see me in session. However the emotions that I feel is different when the person you play with also happens to be very close to you. At that point, I find myself on the cautious side not to harm him. Obviously you treat a submissive differently whe...

People will always have their own opinions about pro-Dommes. Some say that we are not "real" Mistress because of the tribute in question, or that pro Dommes are actually submissive because they cater to men who want to be dominated. I see this topic debated over and over again is discussion forums such as CollarMe, my blog and now my Yahoo 360 account (not often used) So Fluff Daddy Whorebucks says, "You do realize dear Domina Jade that to dominant for money as a 'pro' you are ironically sexually serving your clients - a submissive act in and of itself. Don't get me wrong - it's just peachy to 'assertively' sexually serve for money as a dominant as long as you sincerely realize you it is an act of submission;-]" To which I reply, "Fluff Daddy - Now who says there is any sex involve with my professional domination? As for real life S/M scenes do you not also negotiate what a submissive is interested in and what his limits are? Same goes f...

Mark Friday, September 21st on your calendar because I will guest speak with Mistress Vanisha on Dr. Laurie Betito's Passion radio show. The segment will talk about what is the definition of being kinky, how one becomes a pro-Domme and more. Friday's show will broadcast in Toronto however you can go to Newstalk 1010 CFRB website to listen over the internet live. Dr. Laurie Betito takes your intimate calls about love, sex and relationships on PASSION, Monday though Friday 10 pm - 11 pm on Newstalk 1010 CFRB . Dr. Laurie is a Psychologist and Sex Therapist in private practice. She joined the Standard Radio family about 18 years ago when she co-hosted a show on Montreal's MIX 96 called "The Loveline". She joined CJAD 800 in Montreal 9 years ago with her own nightly talk show. Montrealers have been getting the best sex-ed ever since. Passion is the only show of its kind in town. Each Saturday night she takes on a different issue facing couples, singles, and teens. ...

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So I figure that it's time to set up a group all about ME :) What should you expect?? Monthly photo updates, reviews, session stories, events calendar and little contests. It's more interactive and there will be plenty of discussions. So do yourself a favor and join right now - it's FREE. p.s I am still building the group with content. Be patient since I am also busy with my life as a sexuality adviser, pro-Domme and events planner. Subscribe to Jade's Worship Club Email: Visit this group

I am so proud of T.J for taking a good ass whopping from me. Here are the photos taken the following day.

Come see me perform live at: Club Cleopatra at 1230 St. Laurent Blvd, 2nd floor Friday September 7th, 2007 Doors open at 10pm and tickets are $10 Show starts at around midnight so be there earlier. Check my previous photos here

I really don't know how anyone can be so dishonorable to copy someone else's web content. Of course I am talking about my website and having some pages copied and pasted word for word onto another LOCAL "Mistress" site. Did you think that I would not know about it??? I randomly check on the directories of who's new and what's happening in the fetish scene. So of course when I came across www.dominatrixjaye.com and saw so many similarities I emailed her with a warning: August 15th, 2007 Hi Jaye My name is Domina Jade, you probably know me from my website www.dominajade.ca which you have blatantly copied and pasted a whole lot of text from. I am giving you 24 hours to either come up with your own words or take the copied text out completely. Pages in question from http://www.dominatrixjaye.com: Rules and especially Services page when you say. "Note: Although Bondage, Discipline, Sadism and Masochism (BDSM) may be considered erotic in nature it does not lead...

Today is Tuesday and you know what that means. For all you cheapies it's the perfect time to give me a call because it's only 99cents per minute. Take advantage to be trained as a submissive or to get your dosage of Jade humiliation. Rules: All calls made today or on any special listing is 10 minutes. No excuses. If you fail to honor this rule then you are blocked. So set a time where you will not be interrupted before calling me. I want to start training submissives long term, so be prepared to disclose more information about yourself. you are not allowed to masturbate or cum unless I instruct you to do so. Feel free to send you your weeny dick pics before calling. Have your toys ready because I WILL use your body by torturing or tease & denial. Have a formal introduction and recite: "Hello Mistress Jade, my name is ........ and I am at your command." Followed by any compliments you choose and then ask how you may be of service to me. --- Basically only call me ...

Last night I had a great evening with sub_francois. We went out for some really good Caribbean food .... Mmmmm I recommend the jerk chicked at Mango Bay. "Simply fuckin delicious" is what I say. There was the topic of stragulation that came up. Actually I brought that up because I enjoy the act of strangulation play. Of course one must be very careful with this type of edge play. But I get a kick out of seeing a submissive struggling for air. I love seeing my hand wrap around someone's neck and see them gasping.However keep in mind that conscent is always required and talk about it BEFORE engaging in this type of play. After dinner, we went to Sexe Cite to check out a few outfits. sub_francois promised me shopping so that's what we did. I opted for a lovely red and black pvc underbust corset. It looked stunning - I am debating whether I should wear sans bra for the Fetish Weekend though. Either way it looks great with or without a bra. What followed was an ass whoopi...

Whew! What a busy month July and August has been for me. Actually July was my lazy month. Then by August I was busy with Censored Festival and sessions. I am pretty happy with the turnout of CF considering that it was their first year. I am looking forward to Censored Festival 2008. I performed with Marianne Cheesecake which was an part of an act in Fetish Theater: The Evolution of Fetish. I have to say that the year 2007 is a year of trying new things. It was the first time for me to really perform on stage in front of so many people. I'd have to say that I am very proud of our act. As soon as the video has been edited I will post it on my blog. I had given two workshops, Introduction to Anal Play and Good Girls Guide to Dirty Talking. I found that not enough promo were given to the workshops, but my small group allowed for more intimate discussions. It was also my first time presenting a workshop so I guess the small group was not so intimidating. Overall I really enjoyed doing ...

I have come to the realization that no matter what full-time job that I take besides domination I won't be happy. Sure a regular job will promise me security but it also brings in many hassles such grouchy bosses, deadlines, pressures, stress and somtimes random stupidity from other co-workers. So I am saying to hell with all that. I am going Pro-Domme full-time. I have joined forces with my good friend Ciara from DomAssist, who will be booking sessions and taking calls. Feel free to call her at (514)991-7003 if you have any questions. However I want to clear up that my reasons for going professional Dominatrix isn't just for money. It's a way to completely express myself and to really practice my skill and talents. Everytime I whip you, tie you up, tease or try new torture methods then my inner Domme grows stronger and stronger. I LOVE the fetish world. So why not be a part of that world on a regular basis. Now, you get to be a part of my world now that my time is not so l...

My hosting company had changed servers which regretfully led to me not getting my e-mails. So if you were one of such person(s) who had emailed me using appointment(at)dominajade(dot)ca and never gotten a response, I was not ignoring you. Now that the problem has been rectified, you can go ahead and re-send me your application form. I should be able to respond back within 48-72 hours as I am catching up ... slowly. Regards, Domina Jade

This year our 2nd annual FemDomme Society dinner will once again be held at Hot n' Spicy right along Decarie. We will be celebrating the Chinese New Year - Year of the Pig. The main organizers are HeadMistress Jade Dragon, Lady Nikki and myself. Please come join us for dinner and meet new and already known faces. You must reserve in advance HERE . For my loyal blog readers who are coming to dinner please use discount code "jadesfriend" when you reserve online. Date: February 18th, 2007 Time: 6:00-10:00pm Location: Hot n' Spicy Restaurant 7373 Decarie Blvd. (Corner Jean Talon, across from Namur Metro) Montreal, QC H4P 2G8 ~Domina Jade

I've got a nasty sore throat. Bloody hell. This morning I had to take Buckleys which is some nasty shit, but actually works. As you can tell right now, I am cranky. Having a flaming throat gets you that way especially when I cannot even speak properly anymore. My voice is either too low or I completely lose it to a minor squeak. It was my day off and I was called in to do a duo session with Mistress Kali over at CMF. I really really want to take my mind off my misery and just spank or flog away. Unfortunately the submissive is a wimp at pain. Boohoo for me. Of course I respected his limits and restrained myself. He was more into tease and denial. Which Kali and I were discussing prior to the session, what is considered tease and denial?? Being professional Mistresses Kali and I do not offer any sort of sexual touching. So with that in mind, what do you consider a tease?? I know that I can tease and deny a submissive over the phone pretty well because I can be quite explicit with ph...

This past saturday slave georges and I went out shopping for a new outfit to wear. I wanted to make sure that I looked stunning (as if I don't already :P) at Fetish School 3.0 party held at Bain Mathieu this Jan. 26th. First we went to Cruella on Mont Royal. They carry mostly Lip Service fetish wear. I tried on several pencil skirts and pvc tops. Unfortunately a lot of the clothes are not made for my body type i.e extremely curvy, so I would not recommend going if you happen to have big boobs and a nice size butt. The designs on many of the clothes were interesting however it was made with skinny girls in mind. I finally picked out a pvc pencil skirt with corset style closing in the back and kick ass hosiery that looks like thigh high stocking but had corset style snaps in the back. Next we went to Il Bolero which is located on St Hubert. Il Bolero has a great selection of PVC fetish wear. They are pretty much stocked up on lingerie, costumes for role-play, pvc and they even ha...

I decided to record my side of a dildo fucking phone session. Of course this is after I made him paddle himself 26 times and one for good luck on each cheek. Even though I wasn't the one spanking, I made sure that it hurt. Imagine how he'd feel sitting on a chair and a dildo stuck up his ass *evil grin* Enjoy Domina Jade AUDIO CLIP It's not the best recording (static) since it was taken from my MP3 player.

ROFL!!!!! "Go fuck yourself!" Has new meaning.

Simple question really. What are your skills? "I am open minded and I am good with my tongue" WRONG!!! Do not use "my tongue" as a skill. I don't fuckin care if you make the Queen of England call out your name. Your tongue will NOT go near me. Except perhaps to clean the crud off my shoe and THAT would be all. I can shoe shine your boots till you can see your reflection, I can make you floggers and paddles, I am a web designer, I am a very good cook, I can clean so well that even Martha Stewart will be impressed, I am a huge painslut - THOSE are skills. Fine you can use your tongue in many non-sexual ways i.e clean my boots or the toilet. However if that's the first "skill" that you utter to me then 99.99% it's a sexual thought. And I do not care about that. Well okay I do - but I don't mix business with that sort of pleasure. Anyways that's the end of my rant today - unless some other bozo comes up with another "skill" I woul...

Like any New Years resolution I want to get into tip top shape. However I must admit that I truly need someone to kick me into shape .... and no I am not asking for volunteers. But I need to be motivated and pushed if I want to go to the gym at least three times a week. But imagine this scenario. I have been playing it in my head of what would make an interesting scene. A submissive who is a professional trainer that accompanies me to the gym. We work up a good sweat doing the threadmill, stationary bikes, stairmaster and even weights. He of course still serves me by bringing my water bottle and wiping my face with a towel when I say "Fetch!" or "Wipe!" Hehe. However the real fun begins afterwards when I am home all drenched in sweat and smelling of b.o. That's when I make him worship my stinky feet as I trample over his face, have him sniff my armpits, lick my ass .... haha yeah right. Keep dreaming. It's more like I take of my dirty panties and make him w...