Fantasies & Musings of a Dominatrix

There comes to a point in a pro-Domme's 'career' where she has to decide what are the priorities in her life. I have certainly come to that point. As much as I have enjoyed a lucrative short career as a professional Domme, I am excited to move onto other projects as an entrepreneur. I am stepping down as a Pro, but will still continue the BDSM lifestyle along with my play partner and fiance Master Tommi Gunn. My thanks to my regular submissives who have made the experience all the more pleasurable. I have learn and progressed so much as a Mistress. My desire to play and improve will never really stop. ~ Domina Jade

This year, Isabeau & Sebastien's Fetish Fools Ball was held at the Just For Laughs Museum on St. Laurent. I thought is was a great space, different from Bain Mathieu from previous years. We arrived at around midnight, leaving a mere 3 hours to play - minus 1 hour of meet n' greet. I wore a Lolita black dress with red fishnets stockings from Cruella and killer PVC ankle boots with 6 inch heels from Stelly/Toby on St. Laurent. I must say that I was damn cute (never so innocent) that night. I opted out of the corset for comfort. However towards the end of the night my feet were aching so it was a trade-off. We chose a relatively quiet corner. There were some great pieces of BDSM equipment and furniture at the Ball. Our little corner had a great kneeling bench from a converted barber platform/chair. I will want to add this type of bench to my private collection because it's just too cool. The area had a greenish spotlight which did help us to see in the dark. However I t...

So I get a call from a submissive this evening ... he didn't introduce himself except to say that he had seen me from a fetish party. What he actually wanted was the telephone number of another Mistress. Now this Mistress happens to be a friend of mine, and I have no problems referring him to her. Except, he specifically asked for a number to call. And I know that she prefers correspondence via email, and doesn't disclose her number publicly. When suggested, "you can go to her website and contact her there" He said, "I don't like to use my internet - if I can't get number can you pass her my number instead?" Um .... no. First I am not a placement agency. Second, if you are LAZY and don't want to use your internet then I am not going to help you to connect with another Mistress. So what is the lesson here? Don't short-cut your way to the front of the line. If you are serious and genuine, then follow her rules of conduct and contact her the wa...

Love this video on Youtube.com .... which reminds me that I have a 2 hour strap-on special this month. Email me for more details. Domina Jade

Here's a great video explaining what a Dominatrix does. ---- Since my last rant, I have been pondering even leaving the business ... at least temporarily to pursue other projects. However, that would suck for my regular submissive clients who do enjoy domination for what it is. I still stand by my opinions when I say, escort agencies that hire submissives and Dominatrix will eventually ruin the business here in Montreal. I am simply not going to play the catch up game. Even when I first started going Pro, I already had a good idea of what my values and ideals were. I knew what I would and would not do, and did not tolerate 'topping from bottom.' My first experience was at a dungeon, but after 1 week I knew that I had to be Independent. I simply did not accept so called submissives expecting me to open my legs or show more because they are used to that type of behavior. If anything I was a lot rougher and even lectured them for being disrespectful towards a Mistress. Needles...

It's come to my attention that a lot of submissives AND Mistresses in Montreal are just full of crap. I am talking about the agencies that cheapen the Domination business and the submissives who flip from one Mistress to another. I am sorry for those of you who are genuine and truly understand servitude, but a good number of subs out there who have contacted me for sessions, I'd say 75% either do not call back to confirm or do not know how to speak to address a Mistress properly and has the audacity to ask for 'extra' favors. I'd like to hear from those submissives who do seek professional Mistresses about their thoughts on this. While Montreal has a great Fetish Party scene - the same cannot be said about the pro-Dommes. I see more and more young and untrained Mistresses out there who think that all you have to do is hold a whip and be a bitch. It is unfortunate to see CMF closing its doors for good on February 1st, while other cheap 'dungeons' and agencies...

Come join us at the FemDomme Society Dinner at Hot & Spicy. It's a yearly event which falls on Chinese New Year. And 2008 is Year of the Rat. For more details about reservations, please visit the link below: http://societynewyeardinner-dj.eventbrite.com

I'd like you all to come celebrate with me at The Loft at 1410 Wolfe Street, corner Ste Catherine. There is no need to bring any gifts, however if you do, I enjoy gift certificates to Il Bolero, Sexe Cite, Fetiche Store, and anything that might contribute to my play space. You get a complimentary 'thank you' of 27 spankings or canings on each cheek :) But just be there to say hello and Happy Birthday to Me ;) If you are out of town and cannot attend, give me a call on Niteflirt instead. I will be on the phones Jan 15-16-17-18. See you soon, Domina Jade

Master Gunn and I had performed a show just after Fetish Weekend . Thank you Fetish Lover for taken these pictures. We will have another performance soon. Stay tuned for the date. Domina Jade

Before Christmas, I have fun offering a session to a couple. Him, a french Canadian and Her, a petite Asian. Her name also happened to be Jade. Actually 'Jade' is known to be middle names just like mine. So it's no surprise. It was her first time seeing a Domination session. slut leo encouraged her to be commanding and to treat him like a .... of course a slut. He had the priviledge of serving us both tea, massaging our feet, getting whipped and we fucked his slutty little ass-hole. I wore my leather harness and had on a gorgeous 7 or 8 inch cock. I demonstrated why men love to get fucked from behind. Little slut leo was getting wet in no time. Once I knew his rectum was enlarged, I then had the other Jade continue on. In fact, it was her first time using the strap-on on someone. She did it like a pro. And I am sure that her next shopping spree with slut leo is for a strap-on. I enjoy offering couple sessions. Especially ones where the female is experiencing Domination for ...

Thank you to Dunter , a talented rope bondage enthusiast, for this rope corset. Also thank you to Mistress Jade Dragon for taking the pictures at The Loft in Fall 2007.

Oh what a great start to the New Year 2008. My partner Master Tommi Gunn, submissive francois and I went to a private play party for New Years Eve. The party was hosted by Mistress Yvanka . Her play space was an in an open concept loft with high ceilings, brick walls and plenty of BDSM equipment to use. It was a great dungeon to play in. We arrived just 7 minutes before the countdown. I still had to get fitting into my PVC corset. But made it on time to spank my submissive francois along with the 10 second countdown to the New Year. After mingling and wishing everyone Happy New Year and hugging my very close friends Mistress Jade Dragon and Sir Marc , it was back to business of torturing my submissive with the help of Master Gunn. The cheeks got to a rosy shade pretty quickly, however. Master Gunn and I tagged teamed at flogging, spanking and whipping my submissive. At one point I teased sub francois with my fingers in his mouth while Master Gunn warmed up s.f's ass cheeks. ...

Yes I know .... it's been much too long. Don't worry I am still a part of the scene. In fact I am so busy with sessions and fetish parties that I don't have time to write. Or, when I do - I don't know where to start. The month of November has been hectic for me. From making videos, taking live sessions and tormenting submissives to attending parties. I have been one busy Mistress. I had a session with TJ, who took a mental caning from me. We recorded the entire 3 hour session on tape and from the laptop. The video footage is being edited and will be ready in January. Be prepared to see pain and suffering - it's the real deal. During this session I really pushed TJ's limits ... there were screams and tears. But I continued on using a variety of different implements to mark his body black and blue. I felt a real connection that he not only did it to push himself but to also do it for me. I learned to do even more intricate bondage. Now I want to get a bondage bed ...

I had a very intense humiliation session back in October which involves verbal humiliation, penis torture, spitting, degradation, bondage and a very nice kick to the balls. Thank you david for writing the review on your site. Click here to read more. If you had a session with me and wrote a testimonial please leave your comment with the review link. Thank you.

Hello, As you know I just LOVE to cane my submissives. I was caning subp in one of my sessions when I remembered having my laptop nearby. So here we have an impromptu webcam video of the session. The original is 30 minutes long. Please note that I will not be putting it on sale, rather it's a preview of my Caning Special Tuesday when you book a live session with me. Enjoy! (Editing by Slippy Productions ) Thank you subp for allowing me to video tape you. You were a real trooper for taking one hundred lashes . He not only took my bamboo cane but also my wooden paddles, rubber stick, floggers and more. By the end of the session his leathery ass turned a nice shade of dark red and blue. --- Montreal's Premier Asian Mistress www.DominaJade.ca

What a month! Seems like my caning special Tuesdays have stirred a bit of an interest. In fact I am working on a 10-15 sec clip for you to view .... when my updated site is complete. I have enjoyed pushing numerous submissives, one or two even to tears. Actually I want to share a session that I had with T.J. He's the one in the picture with the caning marks that I had shown some month ago. Sometimes the most intense sessions are the ones where I am not in 'Domme' gear. I am talking about the spontaneous because I am in the mood moments. What's special about this session was that I not only pushed T.J to flowing tears but I even pushed myself as a Mistress. I have no problems in pushing the limits of submissives that I come to see me in session. However the emotions that I feel is different when the person you play with also happens to be very close to you. At that point, I find myself on the cautious side not to harm him. Obviously you treat a submissive differently whe...

People will always have their own opinions about pro-Dommes. Some say that we are not "real" Mistress because of the tribute in question, or that pro Dommes are actually submissive because they cater to men who want to be dominated. I see this topic debated over and over again is discussion forums such as CollarMe, my blog and now my Yahoo 360 account (not often used) So Fluff Daddy Whorebucks says, "You do realize dear Domina Jade that to dominant for money as a 'pro' you are ironically sexually serving your clients - a submissive act in and of itself. Don't get me wrong - it's just peachy to 'assertively' sexually serve for money as a dominant as long as you sincerely realize you it is an act of submission;-]" To which I reply, "Fluff Daddy - Now who says there is any sex involve with my professional domination? As for real life S/M scenes do you not also negotiate what a submissive is interested in and what his limits are? Same goes f...

Mark Friday, September 21st on your calendar because I will guest speak with Mistress Vanisha on Dr. Laurie Betito's Passion radio show. The segment will talk about what is the definition of being kinky, how one becomes a pro-Domme and more. Friday's show will broadcast in Toronto however you can go to Newstalk 1010 CFRB website to listen over the internet live. Dr. Laurie Betito takes your intimate calls about love, sex and relationships on PASSION, Monday though Friday 10 pm - 11 pm on Newstalk 1010 CFRB . Dr. Laurie is a Psychologist and Sex Therapist in private practice. She joined the Standard Radio family about 18 years ago when she co-hosted a show on Montreal's MIX 96 called "The Loveline". She joined CJAD 800 in Montreal 9 years ago with her own nightly talk show. Montrealers have been getting the best sex-ed ever since. Passion is the only show of its kind in town. Each Saturday night she takes on a different issue facing couples, singles, and teens. ...

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So I figure that it's time to set up a group all about ME :) What should you expect?? Monthly photo updates, reviews, session stories, events calendar and little contests. It's more interactive and there will be plenty of discussions. So do yourself a favor and join right now - it's FREE. p.s I am still building the group with content. Be patient since I am also busy with my life as a sexuality adviser, pro-Domme and events planner. Subscribe to Jade's Worship Club Email: Visit this group