Fantasies & Musings of a Dominatrix

My hosting company had changed servers which regretfully led to me not getting my e-mails. So if you were one of such person(s) who had emailed me using appointment(at)dominajade(dot)ca and never gotten a response, I was not ignoring you. Now that the problem has been rectified, you can go ahead and re-send me your application form. I should be able to respond back within 48-72 hours as I am catching up ... slowly. Regards, Domina Jade

This year our 2nd annual FemDomme Society dinner will once again be held at Hot n' Spicy right along Decarie. We will be celebrating the Chinese New Year - Year of the Pig. The main organizers are HeadMistress Jade Dragon, Lady Nikki and myself. Please come join us for dinner and meet new and already known faces. You must reserve in advance HERE . For my loyal blog readers who are coming to dinner please use discount code "jadesfriend" when you reserve online. Date: February 18th, 2007 Time: 6:00-10:00pm Location: Hot n' Spicy Restaurant 7373 Decarie Blvd. (Corner Jean Talon, across from Namur Metro) Montreal, QC H4P 2G8 ~Domina Jade

I've got a nasty sore throat. Bloody hell. This morning I had to take Buckleys which is some nasty shit, but actually works. As you can tell right now, I am cranky. Having a flaming throat gets you that way especially when I cannot even speak properly anymore. My voice is either too low or I completely lose it to a minor squeak. It was my day off and I was called in to do a duo session with Mistress Kali over at CMF. I really really want to take my mind off my misery and just spank or flog away. Unfortunately the submissive is a wimp at pain. Boohoo for me. Of course I respected his limits and restrained myself. He was more into tease and denial. Which Kali and I were discussing prior to the session, what is considered tease and denial?? Being professional Mistresses Kali and I do not offer any sort of sexual touching. So with that in mind, what do you consider a tease?? I know that I can tease and deny a submissive over the phone pretty well because I can be quite explicit with ph...

This past saturday slave georges and I went out shopping for a new outfit to wear. I wanted to make sure that I looked stunning (as if I don't already :P) at Fetish School 3.0 party held at Bain Mathieu this Jan. 26th. First we went to Cruella on Mont Royal. They carry mostly Lip Service fetish wear. I tried on several pencil skirts and pvc tops. Unfortunately a lot of the clothes are not made for my body type i.e extremely curvy, so I would not recommend going if you happen to have big boobs and a nice size butt. The designs on many of the clothes were interesting however it was made with skinny girls in mind. I finally picked out a pvc pencil skirt with corset style closing in the back and kick ass hosiery that looks like thigh high stocking but had corset style snaps in the back. Next we went to Il Bolero which is located on St Hubert. Il Bolero has a great selection of PVC fetish wear. They are pretty much stocked up on lingerie, costumes for role-play, pvc and they even ha...

I decided to record my side of a dildo fucking phone session. Of course this is after I made him paddle himself 26 times and one for good luck on each cheek. Even though I wasn't the one spanking, I made sure that it hurt. Imagine how he'd feel sitting on a chair and a dildo stuck up his ass *evil grin* Enjoy Domina Jade AUDIO CLIP It's not the best recording (static) since it was taken from my MP3 player.

ROFL!!!!! "Go fuck yourself!" Has new meaning.

Simple question really. What are your skills? "I am open minded and I am good with my tongue" WRONG!!! Do not use "my tongue" as a skill. I don't fuckin care if you make the Queen of England call out your name. Your tongue will NOT go near me. Except perhaps to clean the crud off my shoe and THAT would be all. I can shoe shine your boots till you can see your reflection, I can make you floggers and paddles, I am a web designer, I am a very good cook, I can clean so well that even Martha Stewart will be impressed, I am a huge painslut - THOSE are skills. Fine you can use your tongue in many non-sexual ways i.e clean my boots or the toilet. However if that's the first "skill" that you utter to me then 99.99% it's a sexual thought. And I do not care about that. Well okay I do - but I don't mix business with that sort of pleasure. Anyways that's the end of my rant today - unless some other bozo comes up with another "skill" I woul...

Like any New Years resolution I want to get into tip top shape. However I must admit that I truly need someone to kick me into shape .... and no I am not asking for volunteers. But I need to be motivated and pushed if I want to go to the gym at least three times a week. But imagine this scenario. I have been playing it in my head of what would make an interesting scene. A submissive who is a professional trainer that accompanies me to the gym. We work up a good sweat doing the threadmill, stationary bikes, stairmaster and even weights. He of course still serves me by bringing my water bottle and wiping my face with a towel when I say "Fetch!" or "Wipe!" Hehe. However the real fun begins afterwards when I am home all drenched in sweat and smelling of b.o. That's when I make him worship my stinky feet as I trample over his face, have him sniff my armpits, lick my ass .... haha yeah right. Keep dreaming. It's more like I take of my dirty panties and make him w...

In case I don't blog again during the holidays, I want to take a moment to wish all my close friends and submissives a very merry or spanking Christmas. May you continue on to the next year with good health and lotsa play. A special thanks to my dear friend Mistress Jade Dragon who has provided such a supportive shoulder and many laughs. Kisses. I had so much fun playing at private and public parties alike. My most memorable moments are usually sitting on the old arm couch at Jules place sharing Domme stories. To all my dear submissives who have helped enlighten me by making use of your body so I can experiment with new toys or use of my sadistic mind. I thank you very much. I look forward to a whole new year of self discovery, explorations and new faces as well as old. As with every year that will come to pass, take a moment and reflect on what you have accomplished so far. So Have a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year. Hugs to all my friends, and spanks to all my submissives ...

One day at work, I decided to wear all black with just a wide leather belt with zippers and metal studs. A co-worker said as a joke, "Oh I know where you are going tonight, you are a dominatrix because of that belt you're wearing" I laughed with her and simply said, "yes you got me there I am going to whip a submissive real good tonight" And that was the absolute truth! Oh my god. Of all days to have her say that. I did have a session after work. I had left all my gear in a locker at a mall downtown so my bag wouldn't be checked at the end of my shift. If only people knew what I do on my days off. LOL. So has anybody else had similar experiences?? Do share :) Domina Jade

It's amazing what you can see when you google yourself. Actually in my case not so amazing since my site still ranks no. 1 for "Domina Jade." But that's not the point. The point is the fourth ranking is Burning Rubber's comment about my review that I made early this year when a sub bought me a tire paddle for my birthday. Since it's my birthday soon JANUARY 19TH ;P and it's time for me to get a new paddle. Why not get the right size 17" paddle for me so I can do another review. (hint hint) Actually I would LOVE to get new toys to use and abuse on a sub, then do more reviews. So to all you subs who want to be extra generous please get me the following: Versatile Gag Whips and Nylon floggers Glass Dildo I may or may not review this hehe. TENS unit Cupping set If there is a toy that you'd like to give me then I'd be more than happy to use it on you. Be sure to contact me first in case I already have one. xoxo Domina Jade p.s I am on Jane's...

There was a shooting at a college here in my home town. One fatality and at least a dozen others hurt. My heart and prayers go out to the victims of the school shooting that happened today at Dawson College. I am greatly affected because not only did I go to that school, but so does my little brother who is taking classes this semester. The moment that I heard what was going on, I was in a panick and called him up. He is fine, right now safe at home. However he was in a class perhaps 20 feet away from where the shooting took place. It will take a few days to recover over this, even though I did not personally witness or experience this terrible and senseless rampage. I only hope that those who have been hurt will be okay as some are in critical condition. It's even sadder that we just remembered the 9/11. And only 2 days after the anniversary, this happens. I think that I'll donate blood very soon. It's the least that I can do. Today is a sad, sad day. For more news covera...

I finally realized one of my fantasies, and that is to have a play scene out in the secluded woods. Sub y and I spent saturday night and most of sunday at a chalet up north. I feel so pampered and spoiled. The fact that there's no running water at the chalet, sub y had to work a bit harder by fetching water from a spring for my morning bath. Also I was feeling a bit sick so he was a complete sweetheart making my tea, getting cough syrup, and making sure that I was doing fine. Before going to bed on saturday night, we had a little wax play. I LOVE pouring hot wax onto a submissive, almost as much as having wax poured over me. To me, candle wax play can be quite a sensual experience. To have the wax droplets hit your skin to create intense heat then feel it cool off. Wax can be used to decorate your body like art. Depending on where the wax hits, it can be from medium pain to intense pain ... but only for a second. Unless you build up the intensity by letting wax drop over the same s...

Well I decided to give you guys a treat on Niteflirt. Basically I had reduced my rate down to .99 only for Sunday. And boy did I get tons of calls. It was truly so much fun humiliating my little sissy sluts, gang-bang a cuckold, role-play the naughty boss, and of course I even offered cam. Those called me on the on Niteflirt and actually got to cum ... better leave me positive feedback before your next call with me. And for the other losers who hung up after 3 minutes, don't even bother calling me back cause I blocked your sorry ass. I had daniel5496 on cam today. I must admit he was quite a looker, however he was expecting some pussy action. I mean like HELLO! you called the Mistress cam you dumbass. I don't mind being an exhibitionist especially when I feel naughty, however do not ever expect it from me. I will do whatever I want on cam. He did not jump the hoops to get my attention, even said, "I don't take orders too well ... besides I didn't even see your tits...

I know, it's been awhile since I lasted posted. Let me see what did I do while I was away??? Well I have been working (normal job) going out to play parties, water slides, and just enjoying the summer. I have not been dominating submissives very much either in real time or on the phone. But now that the weather is cooling off a little bit, I will be staying home more often. My website is pretty much completed. I will add more pics along the way. Have a few photoshoots set up this month. So be sure to bookmark www.DominaJade.ca if you haven't already. Also on Niteflirt I will set up cam again. If you are admiring me from afar, and cannot see me personally then you can call me on NF and view my cam. If you cannot join NF because of your country then you can still view my cam on Eyeball and Yahoo. You will need to have AlertPay for this option to work. Furthermore, I am looking for both female and male submissives for possible fetish video/photo production. Go to my website for th...

Oh my freakin god ... my head is buzzing fro partying all night until 8am in the morning. It was a total blast. I love living next to students, because they love to party and chances are I can crash in :) Which is exactly what I did last night. I was about to go to sleep at around midnight when I heard some awesome techno and trance music from upstairs. I had forgotten that it was someone's birthday in the apartment. Not one to miss all the action, I freshened up and went to greet my new neighbors. It was such a sight to see like 30-50 people dancing and all crammed up in a 3 1/2. They brought in 6 different DJs to really liven the party. Everyone was simply enjoying the techno beat. I will check out rave parties more often because I love the high octane dancing. To feel my body move and feel so in sync with the music. I just want to lose myself. By morning, I made some new friends. Of course I was getting very hungry so I cooked breakfast for everyone invited. My apartment was jus...

"Hi I am ..... - wanna cam?" "So just how kinky are you?" "You wanna chat? I am handsome, blah, blah, blah" So I have a yahoo profile, which clearly states that I am a professional Domme. I have my website listed as well as Niteflirt. But of course, yahoo sluts don't read. What is a yahoo slut? A wanker who peruses the profiles. If they see a pretty picture, then they will IM you out of the blue. Most like their profile is pretty much worthless so you know they are just trying to get a free wank session. But once in a blue moon I will get a slut that I absolutely adore. A financial slut. Those I will use for my own enjoyment as they tribute their way into my world. Sometimes I will put on my cam after they have proven their worth to me, over and over again. So how do you become a good financial slut? Firstly tribute for my time accordingly. I will not chat with you for free. You want to talk to me then either use Niteflirt or pay to serve me. A good wa...

Mistress Jade Dragon had shown me this book The Better Built Bondage Book at a previous BBQ party. I think that every kinkster who wants to make their own equipement should get TBBBB. It's budget friendly since most toys found in the book are relatively inexpensive to make. It give very concise instructions and the photos are pretty nice to look at. Go visit the TBBBB site for more info. While you're there get me a copy as well ;) ~Domina Jade

Oooooooh my aching feet. I have been on my feet either dancing or dominating on friday and saturday night. Yesterday I was working. So I've been busy having fun for most of the weekend. On friday I went clubbing and danced my feet off. I wore heels that I have not worn since last summer. Big mistake. By the end of the night I limped out of the club. I had to take my heels off, which I did. I felt so good to feel my bare feet against the cold hard pavement. Had to watch out for broken glass though. On saturday I had a very good session with another new submissive. He enjoys heavier pain. I loooooooove to play hard. It gives me an adrenaline rush everytime I bring out a different toy to abuse him with. I used a couple of pervertables such as a metal bristled dog brush. It will get a submissive to jump with you brush against his nipples. I also used these adorable mini clothespins. You can get them at most craft stores. Thanks Maddog for the idea. These mini clothespins may look cute,...

So I had a session last night with a new submissive. I love playing with new submissives because it gives me a sense of excitement as I explore what buttons to push. I love to see them squirm when I dish out the punishments which later end with a reward (if they deserve it). This submissive, we'll call him mad4mitts has a fetish for boxing gloves and stinky feet. I've never boxed before so I was looking forward to try on the gloves for the first time. Prior to the session, I envisioned myself beating the daylights out of the submissive because, well I wanted to. Punching the submissive in the face, giving him side jabs to the ribs, and of course pummeling his cock. I even chuckled to myself as I thought about kneeing him in the the place where 'sun don't shine' and watching him drop to the floor crying. Unfortunately my session didn't go that way. He was simply too old for my beatings - so I spared him. However I wasn't going to let him go so easily. If I co...