Saturday, May 27

It all began with panties

I have to admit, I stumbled onto fetishes by accident perhaps 4-5 years ago. And it all began with my panties. Yes, my panties or rather my thongs. But how?? Well it all began on the fated day when I stumbled onto a panty auction website, notibly eBanned.net. I have always been intrigued by the concept of someone buying a girl's worn panties.

I first heard about it from friends and how in Japan there were these vending machines distributing girl's worn underwear. My first reaction had been 'yuck, who'd buy used underwear? That's nasty' But the more I thought about it the more I wanted to find outabout this 'perverted act'. So began my research and then my eventual participation as a 'panty girl'

Initially girls began to auction off their panties on eBay. But due to the new rules about body parts and liquid, eBay banned these types of auctions. Hence eBanned was born. And now it's a rather huge community with hundreds of different girls auctioning off more than just panties but also pantyhose, used clothing, videos, pictures sets, and even 'brownies' I am sure you have an idea of what THAT is.

As a student with limited funds I figured why not? Pretty harmless, and in fact it is. The new girl will always get tons of bids. I think it went up to $50 just for a panty of mine. I was like 'wow' I'll bet I can post an auction every week for some extra spending money. That lasted for perhaps a year or two.

It was so much fun too. I was adored, worshipped, and praised. I started to finally understand why someone would buy a girl's worn panty. It was an intimate act shared between me and the winning bidder. I would wear the panty for no more than two days, during which I would even masturbate in them because it was such a turn on. Then ship it out when it's was pretty soaked and scented. And I did a pretty damn good job at it too because I always had repeat buyers.

Next to panties, I also posted my worn pantyhose. So I got to to chat with foot fetishists. I remember one particular guy who was also into financial domination. He just adored my size 6 feet. Gotta admit, my feet a pretty to look at. He begged and begged me to send him my foot pictures in exchange for tribute. I could have sent him my photos for a minimal charge, but here was this submissive who wanted to spend his money on me ... no, on my pictures. So I happily charged him extra. But it always rollballed into something else. So began a Mistress and submissive relationship. He then began to send me weekly tributes in the sum of hundreds of dollars. By the end of our relationship, I pretty much sucked out a couple of thousand from him. Now let me remind you that as a student, that's a shitload of money. My books and tuition was pretty much paid for.

But being the curious person that I am, I wanted to learn more about fetishes and domination. By now I was absolutely hooked. Yes of course money was great but there had to be more to domination than financial domination and panty sluts. Although I enjoyed controlling submissives online or e-mail, I wanted more. I wanted to see what was like to dominate in real-time.

By trial and error I learned to become a better Mistress. No one trained me how to be a Dominatrix - although I did read a couple of books. And even if I had the opportunity to be trained, I would not go that way. My method of domination will remain true to me and no one else. I did not start as a submissive. I was not a bossy young teenager tormenting little boys. None of that happened. I'd say my curious nature and open-mind lend me to many wonderful things.

I am happy to say that most of my early experiments with different submissives were good one. I still chat with a few of them as friends. I am of course still learning. Going to public and private play parties, attending BDSM seminars, exchanging tips among my kinkys friends.

There's a second stepping stone to my journey towards Domination, but that will have to wait for next time ...

~Domina Jade

How can you help me? Gag

I love toys. I love my floggers, paddles, strap-on's, and of course my gags. And I love it even more when a toy can actually serve a purpose.





The "How may I serve you" Gag series are ingenious. I absolutely love the idea of snapping different attachments to serve a different purpose.

I can just imagine and fantasize my submissive on hands and knees in front of my toilet bowl cleaning it with the brush attachment.



Wouldn't you want that priviledge, slave? To clean my house with the use of your mouth. Having your hands tied behind your back while you do the housechores. It would be quite amusing to see. Don't you think?

For more information about this toy visit my Wishlist Better yet, buy it for me. But do it quick because JT's Stockroom is having a 10% discount on selected items bought from my wishlist for this week only. I expect many toys in my mailbox :D

~Domina Jade

Sunday, May 14

Don't call me on a holiday

Well I have almost finished packing all my things. Been re-organizing my files, downsizing my belongings. When makes me think how much crap I actually own. My new apartment will be considerably smaller than my current. So I will have live more organized and use all my space to the max. Which is fine by me because the less clutter there is the easier my life will be. And of course it is always useful having help around the house. Thank goodness for slave georges. He and I went shopping yesterday for moving supplies, scented candles, and a bonsai plant. Now that the packing is almost done, I can start planning the actual move sometime in June.

Today is Mother's Day. I got my mom a lovely flower "Lys de Stargazer" and a pot. She appreciated the gesture plus the plant sure does give the house a nice smell. I had no plans other than to see my mom. Surprisingly I received calls for a session from several submissives. One even tried to tempt me into punishing him for taking me away from my mom. Don't think so buddy - but I am available next weekend. There are several holidays that I will not be sessioning; My birthday (Jan. 19th), Christmas, Chinese New Year, Valentines Day, New Years Eve & Day, Mothers & Father's Day .. So take note cause I'll be busy. However there are still many days in the year to see me, just remember to book in advance (24hours) or you'll be disappointed because I always have plans.

~Domina Jade

Saturday, May 6

These losers should get a life

Sometimes I get requests to add to my MSN from people I don't know. Normally I deny that request because I prefer receiving an e-mail first. I am not on MSN all the time and when I am on, I tend to chat with people that I have already met. But today I decided to add Jack onto my list then go online to see who this is. This is sorta how the conversation goes ...

'My friends say you are a whore, do you want the details' then another box opens up and all of a sudden I am chatting with 2 other strangers. And they launch into bashing me. At this point I blocked all of them because this is a complete waste of my time, which confirms why I usually deny chat requests.

To:
ashesofthefetus@hotmail.com
killer_thirst@hotmail.co.uk
never-gonna-keep-me-down@hotmail.com

I have better things to do than to debate whether or not what I do is whorish. If you have problems with what I do, then I don't give a flying fuck. So get a life rather than playing your pathetic games online. Here's some useful advice, since you seem to love each others company so much and have a lot of time to spare try slutting and whoring among yourselves and fuck each other in the ass. Trust me you'll enjoy it. Then you will regret blowing your chances with me and my strap-on.

~Domina Jade

Monday, May 1

Argaive photos now available

Click, click, click :D


NEW!!! Domina Jade and a slave



~Domina Jade