Fantasies & Musings of a Dominatrix

There was a shooting at a college here in my home town. One fatality and at least a dozen others hurt. My heart and prayers go out to the victims of the school shooting that happened today at Dawson College. I am greatly affected because not only did I go to that school, but so does my little brother who is taking classes this semester. The moment that I heard what was going on, I was in a panick and called him up. He is fine, right now safe at home. However he was in a class perhaps 20 feet away from where the shooting took place. It will take a few days to recover over this, even though I did not personally witness or experience this terrible and senseless rampage. I only hope that those who have been hurt will be okay as some are in critical condition. It's even sadder that we just remembered the 9/11. And only 2 days after the anniversary, this happens. I think that I'll donate blood very soon. It's the least that I can do. Today is a sad, sad day. For more news covera...

I finally realized one of my fantasies, and that is to have a play scene out in the secluded woods. Sub y and I spent saturday night and most of sunday at a chalet up north. I feel so pampered and spoiled. The fact that there's no running water at the chalet, sub y had to work a bit harder by fetching water from a spring for my morning bath. Also I was feeling a bit sick so he was a complete sweetheart making my tea, getting cough syrup, and making sure that I was doing fine. Before going to bed on saturday night, we had a little wax play. I LOVE pouring hot wax onto a submissive, almost as much as having wax poured over me. To me, candle wax play can be quite a sensual experience. To have the wax droplets hit your skin to create intense heat then feel it cool off. Wax can be used to decorate your body like art. Depending on where the wax hits, it can be from medium pain to intense pain ... but only for a second. Unless you build up the intensity by letting wax drop over the same s...

Well I decided to give you guys a treat on Niteflirt. Basically I had reduced my rate down to .99 only for Sunday. And boy did I get tons of calls. It was truly so much fun humiliating my little sissy sluts, gang-bang a cuckold, role-play the naughty boss, and of course I even offered cam. Those called me on the on Niteflirt and actually got to cum ... better leave me positive feedback before your next call with me. And for the other losers who hung up after 3 minutes, don't even bother calling me back cause I blocked your sorry ass. I had daniel5496 on cam today. I must admit he was quite a looker, however he was expecting some pussy action. I mean like HELLO! you called the Mistress cam you dumbass. I don't mind being an exhibitionist especially when I feel naughty, however do not ever expect it from me. I will do whatever I want on cam. He did not jump the hoops to get my attention, even said, "I don't take orders too well ... besides I didn't even see your tits...

I know, it's been awhile since I lasted posted. Let me see what did I do while I was away??? Well I have been working (normal job) going out to play parties, water slides, and just enjoying the summer. I have not been dominating submissives very much either in real time or on the phone. But now that the weather is cooling off a little bit, I will be staying home more often. My website is pretty much completed. I will add more pics along the way. Have a few photoshoots set up this month. So be sure to bookmark www.DominaJade.ca if you haven't already. Also on Niteflirt I will set up cam again. If you are admiring me from afar, and cannot see me personally then you can call me on NF and view my cam. If you cannot join NF because of your country then you can still view my cam on Eyeball and Yahoo. You will need to have AlertPay for this option to work. Furthermore, I am looking for both female and male submissives for possible fetish video/photo production. Go to my website for th...

Oh my freakin god ... my head is buzzing fro partying all night until 8am in the morning. It was a total blast. I love living next to students, because they love to party and chances are I can crash in :) Which is exactly what I did last night. I was about to go to sleep at around midnight when I heard some awesome techno and trance music from upstairs. I had forgotten that it was someone's birthday in the apartment. Not one to miss all the action, I freshened up and went to greet my new neighbors. It was such a sight to see like 30-50 people dancing and all crammed up in a 3 1/2. They brought in 6 different DJs to really liven the party. Everyone was simply enjoying the techno beat. I will check out rave parties more often because I love the high octane dancing. To feel my body move and feel so in sync with the music. I just want to lose myself. By morning, I made some new friends. Of course I was getting very hungry so I cooked breakfast for everyone invited. My apartment was jus...

"Hi I am ..... - wanna cam?" "So just how kinky are you?" "You wanna chat? I am handsome, blah, blah, blah" So I have a yahoo profile, which clearly states that I am a professional Domme. I have my website listed as well as Niteflirt. But of course, yahoo sluts don't read. What is a yahoo slut? A wanker who peruses the profiles. If they see a pretty picture, then they will IM you out of the blue. Most like their profile is pretty much worthless so you know they are just trying to get a free wank session. But once in a blue moon I will get a slut that I absolutely adore. A financial slut. Those I will use for my own enjoyment as they tribute their way into my world. Sometimes I will put on my cam after they have proven their worth to me, over and over again. So how do you become a good financial slut? Firstly tribute for my time accordingly. I will not chat with you for free. You want to talk to me then either use Niteflirt or pay to serve me. A good wa...

Mistress Jade Dragon had shown me this book The Better Built Bondage Book at a previous BBQ party. I think that every kinkster who wants to make their own equipement should get TBBBB. It's budget friendly since most toys found in the book are relatively inexpensive to make. It give very concise instructions and the photos are pretty nice to look at. Go visit the TBBBB site for more info. While you're there get me a copy as well ;) ~Domina Jade

Oooooooh my aching feet. I have been on my feet either dancing or dominating on friday and saturday night. Yesterday I was working. So I've been busy having fun for most of the weekend. On friday I went clubbing and danced my feet off. I wore heels that I have not worn since last summer. Big mistake. By the end of the night I limped out of the club. I had to take my heels off, which I did. I felt so good to feel my bare feet against the cold hard pavement. Had to watch out for broken glass though. On saturday I had a very good session with another new submissive. He enjoys heavier pain. I loooooooove to play hard. It gives me an adrenaline rush everytime I bring out a different toy to abuse him with. I used a couple of pervertables such as a metal bristled dog brush. It will get a submissive to jump with you brush against his nipples. I also used these adorable mini clothespins. You can get them at most craft stores. Thanks Maddog for the idea. These mini clothespins may look cute,...

So I had a session last night with a new submissive. I love playing with new submissives because it gives me a sense of excitement as I explore what buttons to push. I love to see them squirm when I dish out the punishments which later end with a reward (if they deserve it). This submissive, we'll call him mad4mitts has a fetish for boxing gloves and stinky feet. I've never boxed before so I was looking forward to try on the gloves for the first time. Prior to the session, I envisioned myself beating the daylights out of the submissive because, well I wanted to. Punching the submissive in the face, giving him side jabs to the ribs, and of course pummeling his cock. I even chuckled to myself as I thought about kneeing him in the the place where 'sun don't shine' and watching him drop to the floor crying. Unfortunately my session didn't go that way. He was simply too old for my beatings - so I spared him. However I wasn't going to let him go so easily. If I co...

I can't think of anything better to celebrate Canada Day than a kinky pool party. The party was hosted by a couple well known in the BDSM community because of KINK. I got to see and have fun with all my kinky friends; Mistress Jade Dragon (see her blog ), Michael, Sir Marc, and Maddog. What a great way to start the summer. There was good food, good music, a cold pool, and an open fire. I managed to fit into bikini but will get a new bathing suit because the ass part is getting loose. In the pool we were running around to make whirlwinds then floated with the motion on boogie boards. We were silly and acted like a bunch of kids, but hey it summer. Plus who says we can't act like kids once in awhile. I was given a tour of the house and cozy dungeon. I must admit it was quite small, given the 9x9 room. However they fixed the room perfect for two without being too crowed. It has a nice Egyptian theme and I absolutely adore the wood boards across one wall to serve as a bondage are...

Well my move has been without any major headaches. I had my friends help me out and I could not have had my move without them. Now I am settled in my new apartment. I love my new space. What I love about this place is that it's close to all amenities and it's just a 20 minute metro ride to downtown. There are still some things that I need to do before I feel like it's home, such as painting and buying some new curtains. I have plenty of storage space. In fact I have a cellar that is placed underneath some stairs. What's great is that I can transform that cellar into a cage for a disobedient pet or just someone who loves cages. I will have someone place a wrought iron gate behind the door so it's discreetly hidden from the 'vanilla' folk. My office is will be set in a way that I can move around furniture to accomodate a dungeon. I plan on getting a cross, a spanking bench and a bondage chair. I think those are the basics which suit me fine. I don't need ...

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I love toys. I love my floggers, paddles, strap-on's, and of course my gags. And I love it even more when a toy can actually serve a purpose. The "How may I serve you" Gag series are ingenious. I absolutely love the idea of snapping different attachments to serve a different purpose. I can just imagine and fantasize my submissive on hands and knees in front of my toilet bowl cleaning it with the brush attachment. Wouldn't you want that priviledge, slave? To clean my house with the use of your mouth. Having your hands tied behind your back while you do the housechores. It would be quite amusing to see. Don't you think? For more information about this toy visit my Wishlist Better yet, buy it for me. But do it quick because JT's Stockroom is having a 10% discount on selected items bought from my wishlist for this week only. I expect many toys in my mailbox :D ~Domina Jade

Sometimes I get requests to add to my MSN from people I don't know. Normally I deny that request because I prefer receiving an e-mail first. I am not on MSN all the time and when I am on, I tend to chat with people that I have already met. But today I decided to add Jack onto my list then go online to see who this is. This is sorta how the conversation goes ... 'My friends say you are a whore, do you want the details' then another box opens up and all of a sudden I am chatting with 2 other strangers. And they launch into bashing me. At this point I blocked all of them because this is a complete waste of my time, which confirms why I usually deny chat requests. To: ashesofthefetus@hotmail.com killer_thirst@hotmail.co.uk never-gonna-keep-me-down@hotmail.com I have better things to do than to debate whether or not what I do is whorish. If you have problems with what I do, then I don't give a flying fuck. So get a life rather than playing your pathetic games online. Here...

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Today was absolutely gorgeous. What a perfect day to have a session too. Sub yves and I had exchanged emails and spoken a few times on Niteflirt. So by the time we finally met in person, I knew him enough to be comfortable playing with him. Prior to the session I broke out my chunky open toed sandals. Since it has been awhile since I wore them, my feet were aching by time I arrived at the dungeon. So guess who got to rub my feet. What a pleasant surprise when sub yves presented me with a present. He bought a tube top dress with a glitery dragon in front and black pantyhose also with dragons. These thoughtful gestures certainly do put a smile on my face. Truthfully I haven't been in the best moods lately but sub yves really did cheer me up. Thank you yves. A funny story about the purchase. Yves went a sex store located outside of Montreal. The saleswoman was someone in her fifties. She asked yves if he was buying for his girlfriend, to which he responded that it's the first time...

I almost did not go to Inferno because I lacked transportation there. However I convinced my non-kinky friend to come out with me. It was so last minmute (started chatting on msn at 10:58pm) that we missed a good portion of CMF's show. Oh well, maybe next time. Even though I brought my bag of goodies with me, I ended dancing the whole night. The music was good, we were non stop on the dance floor the whole night through. I think that next time I will tour the play area a little bit more a snag myself a willing victim. I love to play in public. Come to think of it, I should have given my friend a tour of the play area. Perhaps next time if he decides to go to another fetish party. Too bad he's not of submissive nature, I would have enjoyed tying him up and spanking him. I do enjoy rosy cheeks :D Well, there are many others who'd love to get their ass spanked by me. And I will do so with a smile. ~Domina Jade

Today I have signed my lease to my new apartment which I get to move in for July. Now the only thing that I have to think of next is packing my things and the moving day madness. But I will worry about that later. For the next couple of weeks I am going to concentrate on getting supplies and furniture for my very own dungeon! I am absolutely ecstatic about playing whenever I want in my own privacy. I can invite my kinky friends over or even have extended play with submissives. But of course I have to have my dungeon filled with the essentials. A couple of things that I will require: Spreader bars in various lengths Wrist and ankle cuffs Plenty of bondage rope in different thicknesses Metal hooks and rings Candles Spanking bench Industrial roll of plastic wrap Non-kinky items in large quantity: Towels Paper towels Baby wipes latex gloves So if you want to see that I get what I want and need for my new dungeon then contribute to my "Dungeon Fund" I accept NF and PP donations. E...

I get quite a few regular callers on Niteflirt. The topic of discussion varies from feminization, financial domination to playing out different role-plays. My favorite are of course financial domination. I get so much satisfaction out of submissives emptying their wallets and paying my bills. Take slaverick, he simply cannot get enough of me. He's been my paypig for several months. It started off slowly as I would have him pay for my pictures at a higher price, because I can. He's been sending me cash at least every week. And now he's upgraded to paying my rent. Today he accepted a payment request from paypal for $250, and he will accept another $250 on NF. So he's currently in my Hall of Fame among submissives. In no time he will have sent me hundreds and soon thousands. I have others who enjoy spoiling me like malcolm who is also my panty slut. I sent him my worn panties to sniff and worship. It should arrive in his mailbox pretty soon. I've sent him audio instruc...