Fantasies & Musings of a Dominatrix

Today was absolutely gorgeous. What a perfect day to have a session too. Sub yves and I had exchanged emails and spoken a few times on Niteflirt. So by the time we finally met in person, I knew him enough to be comfortable playing with him. Prior to the session I broke out my chunky open toed sandals. Since it has been awhile since I wore them, my feet were aching by time I arrived at the dungeon. So guess who got to rub my feet. What a pleasant surprise when sub yves presented me with a present. He bought a tube top dress with a glitery dragon in front and black pantyhose also with dragons. These thoughtful gestures certainly do put a smile on my face. Truthfully I haven't been in the best moods lately but sub yves really did cheer me up. Thank you yves. A funny story about the purchase. Yves went a sex store located outside of Montreal. The saleswoman was someone in her fifties. She asked yves if he was buying for his girlfriend, to which he responded that it's the first time...

I almost did not go to Inferno because I lacked transportation there. However I convinced my non-kinky friend to come out with me. It was so last minmute (started chatting on msn at 10:58pm) that we missed a good portion of CMF's show. Oh well, maybe next time. Even though I brought my bag of goodies with me, I ended dancing the whole night. The music was good, we were non stop on the dance floor the whole night through. I think that next time I will tour the play area a little bit more a snag myself a willing victim. I love to play in public. Come to think of it, I should have given my friend a tour of the play area. Perhaps next time if he decides to go to another fetish party. Too bad he's not of submissive nature, I would have enjoyed tying him up and spanking him. I do enjoy rosy cheeks :D Well, there are many others who'd love to get their ass spanked by me. And I will do so with a smile. ~Domina Jade

Today I have signed my lease to my new apartment which I get to move in for July. Now the only thing that I have to think of next is packing my things and the moving day madness. But I will worry about that later. For the next couple of weeks I am going to concentrate on getting supplies and furniture for my very own dungeon! I am absolutely ecstatic about playing whenever I want in my own privacy. I can invite my kinky friends over or even have extended play with submissives. But of course I have to have my dungeon filled with the essentials. A couple of things that I will require: Spreader bars in various lengths Wrist and ankle cuffs Plenty of bondage rope in different thicknesses Metal hooks and rings Candles Spanking bench Industrial roll of plastic wrap Non-kinky items in large quantity: Towels Paper towels Baby wipes latex gloves So if you want to see that I get what I want and need for my new dungeon then contribute to my "Dungeon Fund" I accept NF and PP donations. E...

I get quite a few regular callers on Niteflirt. The topic of discussion varies from feminization, financial domination to playing out different role-plays. My favorite are of course financial domination. I get so much satisfaction out of submissives emptying their wallets and paying my bills. Take slaverick, he simply cannot get enough of me. He's been my paypig for several months. It started off slowly as I would have him pay for my pictures at a higher price, because I can. He's been sending me cash at least every week. And now he's upgraded to paying my rent. Today he accepted a payment request from paypal for $250, and he will accept another $250 on NF. So he's currently in my Hall of Fame among submissives. In no time he will have sent me hundreds and soon thousands. I have others who enjoy spoiling me like malcolm who is also my panty slut. I sent him my worn panties to sniff and worship. It should arrive in his mailbox pretty soon. I've sent him audio instruc...

Sweet! The long awaited pics from Argaive are almost ready. Here are a few samples of the beautiful photography we came up with. Enjoy! Domina Jade

I had a marvelous time last night with my good friend philippe. We started playing at around midnight and finished the scene by 2am. He's such a nipple torture slut. Afterwards when I saw how big and perky his nipples were I remarked that he can now fit into an A cup lol. Here are some photos to look at: We haven't played in two months. So last night, it was a blast seeing him suffer for me again. It's not everyday that I get to play with such a pain slut that when I do play, it's a real treat for me. I love watching him moan in sweet agony as I perform my nipple tortures, cbt, bondage, caning, and spanking. LOVE IT. Now I need a bit of practice with my caning techniques and so he showed me an extreme caning website Mood Pictures. Talk about hardcore and extreme caning sessions. I don't think that I am at that level quite yet. I know that philippe is capability of taking that sort of torture so when I am ready hopefully he will be my subject. Well it's another ...

Yesterday was absolutely gorgeous. I took my bike out and rode out to check an apartment for rent. Turns out that I love the place. Hopefully I will be accepted as a tenant. The nice weather has been encouraging me to ride my bike everywhere. Pretty soon I will have buns of steel. Also my thighs and calves will be a power to be reckoned with when I kick my submissives in the ass LOL. I did 3 hours of biking without much pain unlike the last time (I now have gel seats to cushion my lovely bum) so no more complaining from me ;) By the time I got home it was 7pm - I felt restless and didn't want to stay home. So I called up my good friend philippe. We went out to St. Denis, had coffee and just caught up on news and life. It was a perfect night, just a little breeze not too cold and not too hot. Everything was great until a pebble shot into my plate, good thing I just finished. Construction on St Denis makes everything dusty - especially with the afternoon walking traffic. So we contin...

So, did everyone have a pleasant Easter this weekend? I had a very quiet weekend as I don't celebrate Easter, however I don't mind getting chocolates LOL. I am now on a a veggie diet to flush out the impurities in my system. Spoiling myself with chocolate was not all I had done .. I did take a *few* calls on Nitefirt and checked the newspaper for a new apartment. Moving is such a hassle here in Montreal. I think we're the only city that has July 1st as a moving day and it's the dumbest ritual ever. So I trying on finding a place for June in order to bypass the moving day headache. Then I have to consider renting a moving truck and hire men to move my stuff. And I have A LOT of stuff. But once it's all over, I will have fun painting and decorating my own place. No roomates with different decorating styles, no disagreements, no sharing bathrooms, and dammit I can walk naked in the apartment if I want to. Yup, I am looking forward to moving out and starting fresh. Now...

Here is my conversation on msn with a submissive from Lavalife. thomas: hello Ma'am Domina Jade: hello Domina Jade: so I granted you permission to chat with me for a bit on msn thomas: thank you Ma'am thomas: you are looking for a masochist ? Domina Jade: absolutely thomas: as a personal sub to you Ma'am? Domina Jade: well that option might be available but it all depends thomas: may i ask on what Ma'am? Domina Jade: well for one thing I don't want a do-me submissive thomas: no Ma'am Domina Jade: When I choose a submissive it will be on my terms thomas: but i may not like all your likes and do have my own limits... Domina Jade: well of course and I respect that thomas: somehow i knew that Domina Jade: I don't like someone dictating what I can do thomas:i see Domina Jade: however I will push limits thomas: you mean not dictating my hard limits Ma'am? Domina Jade: not quite, it's more like telling me to do this and that without considering what I want ...

I had a BLAST partying at both Fetish4Play and Fetish Fool's Ball. Both parties were well planned out and I am all partied out! Friday night was the Fetish Expo at the Fetish4Play where local crafts people display their fetish talents. It varied from photography, custom made floggers, paddles, humblers, figurines, and jewelry. It was a fantastic night to see them showcase their work. During the party we were entertained by a demo performed by Master Luk, Calamity and Freaky Nat. It was sexy and highly entertaining. Saturday night was the Fetish Fool's Ball at Bain Mathieu. I was absolutely awestruck during the whole event. There was an empty pool at the center which people can dance in, a projection screen inside a large ball hanging from the ceiling, dancing performers all night through, an acrobat performance with ceiling drapes, kickass DJ, big play area, and lounge area that can be entered by the side of the pool. The whole night was phenomenal - I believe these types...

Quite often I get requested to role-play. This can either be in person or on the phone. While I enjoy role-play scenarios there are some scenes that hold a special place in my wicked heart. Medical Role-Play I play the naughty nurse or doctor, and the submissive plays the patient. What I love is using the stainless steel equipement and prodding it into the patient. Or wrapping the patient in bandage - sorta like bondage for me. As a child I did not get a chance to play doctor too often, maybe it is now that I am catching up ;) Prison Role-Play I play the guard and the submissive is the prisoner. Hmmm, I just want to play rough and hold the prisoner to the wall and frisk him. Do a thorough inspections check before entering his caged chambers. I find that walking around with a baton and tapping it in my hand while staring down the prisoner is pretty hot. Disciplinary Role-Play This can involve either a teacher and her student or the lieutenant and the soldier. The main idea here is behav...

There are still some fetishes or activities that I would love to try but have not due to lack of opportunity or equipment. I have a fascination with medical play, but there are not too many submissives out there who have shown the same interest. Plus medical play would require sounds and speculums, well a lot of goodies which I currently do not have so it’s on my wishlist. There’s something naughty about playing nurse and doing a body examination. *Grin* Oh what fun I will have as I strap you down onto a medical table as I perform my inspections. Say “Ahhhhhhh” Something else that I want to explore a lot further is suspension bondage. I want to learn the proper rope methods and suspend the submissive from a high ceiling. To see the submissive bound, gagged and blindfolded creates a warm stir inside of me. With the ass up in the air it gives me a wicked urge to spank it pink or maybe even blue. And once done with the spanking, the ass is ready to take on my strap-on as the finishing to...

Recently I had a good session with a novice. The submissive was so new to the scene that I teasingly called him a ‘baby’ submissive. However he was quite eager to learn and experience something new. He demonstrated obedience, respect, and an open-mind – qualities that I look for in a submissive. The dungeon has a throne chair that doubles as a stocks device. The submissive can kneel and place his head securely through the chair then his wrist is tied to the side of the chair. I had ‘baby’ submissive restrained, blindfolded and helpless as I tickled him with a feather and did some sensation play. At one point, I told him that I’d pour hot wax all over his body. The submissive was quite adamant not to try. He already had preconceived ideas that it would burn the flesh and be a bad experience. To ease his doubts, I said that I will pour wax on my hand so I know how it feels. (Personally I love the feeling of hot wax on my body – but that’s another story) I then poured the wax on his hand ...

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Today I was treated to a manicure and pedicure by my new submissive, slave georges. Actually I told him to treat me to a day of pampering the Mistress because I deserve it. Well, he couldn’t object to my request since he agrees that it is a privilege to serve me anyway. While I was at the salon I sent slave georges to pick up a couple of things for my office. I am using this new program from Skype so I needed a chat headset. Stay tuned for my distance training programs for international submissives who cannot join Niteflirt For what I thought would last one hour, the whole manicure/pedicure actually took a little over 2 hours. It started with a nice foot soak, followed by a foot rub. It felt so good to have my feet massaged and rid of any rough spots. Summer is right around the corner, so I will need to have my feet taken care of for sandal season. What a great way to tease all you foot fetishists ;) Once everything dried off, I put on my boots but didn’t actually button it close. I ar...

Last saturday, boytoy j and I went to a private party. It was his first time going to a Montreal private party so I wanted to prep him for the party. I decided that it was time to wax the hair from his back. He had a patch of hair at the nape of his neck and down the lower back. I don't mind hair, in fact I love to scratch his hairy chest or warm my feet there but back hair is something I am not too fond of. So it had to go. I bought my waxing kit with him a couple of days earlier so he knew what I had in store for him. He simply did not know when. boytoy arrived a couple of hours before the party, that's when I decide to cuff him with his leather restraints and tie his wrists over his head. I attached his ball gag harness over his head so my roomate could not hear him scream as I ripped the wax strips off his back. It was so amusing to see him shudder and yell against his gag. At one point I ripped two strips at the same time. THAT was a huge ouchie. I love spreading the warm ...

I absolutely love the idea of torturing the sub's most vulnerable part, their cock and balls. It is a piece of flesh hanging out there totally exposed. And it is often their measure of their ego and manliness. But I usually don't see them bragging about their penis once I squeeze their balls real tight. boytoy j and I went to see the Olypic Stadium on Saturday. But before we left, I made him wear his CB cage. It's such a lovely piece of equipement - made of leather and squeezes every part together tightly. Took him awhile to put it on, well it means he actually has something to put in. *Grin* What we secretly share is his humiliation while he wore the cage in public. I delighted in reminding him about his predicament everytime I secretly rubbed his crotch. Usually it is meant to pleasure but in his case he hurts from my touch. He wore the cage for 7 hours. He felt the discomfort with every moment together, especially as I whispered wicked thoughts into his ear which would ...

I had spoken to a submissive who has feminization fantasies. I thought it was a very good call, as we role-played my strap-on on my little sissy slut. However I get back a 5 star feedback with this note: "i enjoyed the call but was hoping to speak with a real time asian dominatrix.not sure if i can find one on keen.she has a very sexy voice." 2.13.2006 The insinuation that I am not a 'real time asian dominatrix' is a real disappointment. And here is what I think about this comment. First of all when calling any phone operator or Mistress for a phone session understand that there are certain limitations like lack of touch, lack of equipment, lack of space, and lack of submissive. So when a submissive calls and says he would like to serve me but happens to be miles away, short of turning this into a financial domination session there's not much that I can do. I can however stimulate your mind when I weave elaborate stories or launch in session details. When I receiv...

I have met sub. alex on several occasions either at a play space or for a session. he is, in my opinion a very good submissive to experiment on. he previously bought me a rubber paddle made out of recycled tires. I love the concept and you can buy it here Here is my review on the Original BadAss 22" When I first held it in my hand, I could definitely feel the weight. It's heavy and long, so you have to get use to the feeling and try to balance when spanking someone. The handle is made of metal with a rubber/plastic sleeve. It does have a metal ring to hang against the wall, which can be quite useful. The 22" paddle is probably not the best choice for me because I have small hands and it is on the heavy side. Also be vigilant when spanking someone continuously because you hands will feel slippery from sweat on the plastic sleeve. The paddle gives a nice thuddy feeling, but it will leave marks if you swing harder with the shoulders. The paddle did give alex's bum che...

This month has been quiet in terms on real time sessions. But that doesn't mean I will be desperate and accept just anybody. richard, was referred to me several months ago. However a couple of minutes into the conversation I immediately thought "wanker" and rejected his request to see me. However he persistently calls to see if I would change my mind about him. Well his ideal session would be that I would jerk him off while dominating him. He feels that 'we' would benefit since he plans on seeing me many more times - so he says. Anyway, I have no interest in helping someone cum by my own hand. Not only do I think it an unprofessional practice for a pro-Domme but I think it's 'gross' for lack of a better word. Oh he's persistent I must admit, and he convinced me to have dinner with him. The day that he called, I was in a happy mood so he struck lucky. Dinner was fine, however in his mind he regards BDSM in a sexual way. Oh I have no problems with th...